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Tracy Lee Horn

Tracy L. Horn, 61 of Wilmington and formerly of Chadds Ford, PA passed away with her family by her side at Christiana Hospital on July 10, 2023.

Tracy was a graduate of Garnet Valley High School ’79 and worked as an Employment Services Manager for Autism Delaware.  She loved her job and the Autistic adults and children she was so fortunate to work with.

She enjoyed the family get togethers, the outdoors and watching the birds and other wildlife from her back patio.  She loved wildflowers, decorating and especially the beach.

Tracy touched the lives of so many and was very loved by her family and friends.  She was a special person who would help anyone and will be so missed.

She was predeceased by her adored grandparents. Tracy is survived by her husband David of 22 years, parents Roberta and Bruce Flanagan of Wilmington, DE, brother David (Sara) Flanagan of Pittsford, NY, and beloved cousins Tom and Greg and their families.

A Memorial Service will be held at 12:00 pm on Saturday July 22, 2023 at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, Delaware where friends may visit from 10:30 am to 12:00 pm.

Tracy loved animals and only adopted her pets from shelters.  To honor that, please send a donation to Faithful Friends, an animal shelter, 165 Airport Rd., New Castle, DE 19720.

Funeral Services

A Memorial Service will be held at 12:00 pm on Saturday July 22, 2023 at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, Delaware where friends may visit from 10:30 am to 12:00 pm.

Condolences

    Floss Cuthbert lit a candle and writes,
    What a beautiful woman you were. You have touched so many lives . The love you gave to your students and family will live forever! May the choirs of angels escort you into the arms of Jesus. My sincere condolences to your loved ones. Floss
    07/14/2023 10:11 pm
    Anne writes,
    My girl. Love you until the end of time.
    07/14/2023 11:24 pm
    Brian Snell lit a candle
    07/15/2023 10:50 am
    Carmen Fillis Pierce writes,
    Tracy is, and was a trail blazer in the Autism community. Her legacy will continue on through Autism Delaware and all the individuals she helped throughout her career. To work with Tracy was a honor. To have become her friend. I will be forever blessed and grateful 🙏
    07/15/2023 11:38 am
    Noel Olson writes,
    I’ll remember Tracy for the laughter we shared and her generous nature. We shared a love of nature and pets - she was a friend to the animals. She kept a beautiful garden, where we enjoyed time together. She will be remembered by so many individuals and families, for her dedication and PASSION to find meaningful employment for people with disabilities. I’m sad for the people who won’t get to meet her. I’m happy to have know her. Much love Tracy
    07/15/2023 11:39 am
    Susan & Mark Loren lit a candle and writes,
    Sending our sincere sympathies from afar and thinking of you during this sad time. We are hoping your happy memories help you through this time of grief. Susan and Mark Loren Wesley Chapel, Florida
    07/15/2023 02:12 pm
    Junior Achievement of Delaware lit a candle
    07/15/2023 03:28 pm
    Anthony J Porreca lit a candle and writes,
    You are a beautiful person. You will be dearly missed.
    07/15/2023 04:38 pm
    Lori and Frank Smith
    07/15/2023 05:27 pm
    Joe and Carol Coombs writes,
    My condolences to the family. We have shared so many great times with Tracy. We go back from late 80's when we all worked at Tyler's Sports Bar. So glad we never lost touch. Tracy was a very special person and we will miss her tremendously.
    07/15/2023 08:31 pm
    Katheen Shomo lit a candle and writes,
    Tracy I’m gonna miss you big time buddy. You were an extraordinary friend. We laughed we cried but Mostly laughed out loud I cherish our adventures. You are irreplaceable. Be at peace kath
    07/15/2023 09:10 pm
    Michelle Cordoue writes,
    Tracy was a great friend. She was a fierce warrior for her team and her participants. She would move heaven and earth to get what they needed. Her zest for life and her love for Dave kept her moving forward. She will be truly missed by those who met her and came to love her. May she be in peace.
    07/15/2023 09:44 pm
    David Flanagan writes,
    Sissy, My heart hangs incredibly low that we don't get to talk and laugh any more. You ALWAYS had a crazy story to share. We had SOOOO many great times with one another. Everyone is coming forward with wonderful stories about the two of us, some that I forgot. There's no way to really express this loss. You were an amazing person with a heart the size of a school bus. You were a great sister and I thank you to the moon and back for your gifts to me. Two of which were the biggest gifts of my life. You were at service to everyone around you which is the highest compliment that I know of in terms of living a valuable life. You go girl, you go to the next plane of existence and see that you were loved by everyone you touched. It's your turn to be free. Swim in the sky, dance in the clouds, and play with the dogs. Say hi to Mammy and Pop. I love you forever, Sonny
    07/16/2023 08:41 am
    Katie S lit a candle and writes,
    Deepest condolences to the Family, Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
    07/16/2023 10:32 am
    Margie R. lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences to Tracy’s family. I worked with Tracy the last several years, her passion was contagious. She was a beautiful person inside and out. She will be missed beyond words. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    07/16/2023 12:41 pm
    Angela Hendrickson writes,
    You were a light in every life you've touched. You had an amazing spirit that loved with all you had. Your energy will be missed dearly.
    07/16/2023 12:43 pm
    Tara lit a candle and writes,
    I remember Tracy as my job coach and friend alway to her about my family and we laughed together . I will miss giving her the update what on in my family and seeing how she doing. I will miss seeing her around.
    07/16/2023 01:16 pm
    Grant writes,
    Tracy found employment for me through Autism Delaware. She was really nice to me and I will miss her very much. Grant Hill
    07/16/2023 01:31 pm
    Cheryl writes,
    I appreciated Tracy’s dedication and her years of service as an advocate helping those with Autism find employment. To see her build and maintain relationships with participants, their families, and community partners was a privilege. I shared Tracy’s love of animals and nature. I will miss her laugh and feisty character. To have touched so many people shows how beloved she was. I offer my deepest sympathy to Dave and the Flanagan family.
    07/16/2023 01:43 pm
    Joe lit a candle and writes,
    Tracy, I will miss our early morning and late night phone calls laughing and catching up. I am glad I was able to know you and enjoyed our time together. Rest easy my friend. Xo
    07/16/2023 03:26 pm
    Diardia Mcclary lit a candle and writes,
    I will never forget the day I meet Ms. T as I called her every now and then because she called me Ms Dee. You will be Truly missed Tracy I always loved you smiling face whenever you would enter the office. Rest in Peace my friend. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    07/16/2023 08:26 pm
    Joe Sharpe lit a candle and writes,
    Tracy was downright incredible at her job. She had that feisty energy and drive. The past few weeks I really got to know more of her story and how she has been helping find employment for folks for years. It was really nice to see her relaxed and laughing with me. I remember commenting to her telling her it was so nice to see her calm and relaying her life. I felt I was REALLY getting to know her. I had never got to see that side of her before. I incorrectly always saw the serious and direct side. It just hurts because in these past few weeks, she felt more like an aunt than a Supervisor and I was really developing a friendship. R.I.P. Tracy! You have impacted so many lives with your work and big heart. You fought for what's right, and now you can finally rest. I love you. ❤️❤️
    07/16/2023 08:41 pm
    Diardia Mcclary lit a candle
    07/16/2023 08:54 pm
    Sandi Hague lit a candle and writes,
    Such a tragic loss. Tracy always smiled and laughed.
    07/17/2023 12:34 am
    Anthony Williams lit a candle and writes,
    Dave, We know this is a rough time, just know that your PECO family is here for you.
    07/17/2023 07:04 am
    Kate Panto lit a candle and writes,
    So grateful for the opportunity to have known and work with Tracy. Tracy had a heart of good, incredibly knowledgeable, and had a great sense of humor! She will be missed by many. My condolences to family and all that had the pleasure to know her.
    07/17/2023 07:38 am
    Dana Slachta lit a candle and writes,
    Tracy, You were an amazing friend and colleague. You made my job so much easier, and your care and patience were unmatched. You were the one person I knew that your job was your calling, and you did it with grace and passion. I know your clients will be as devistated as I am at the loss of their advocate. Many didn't have one until you came along and will be lost without you in their lives. You made a great impression on so many in your 61 years and I know heaven just gained an angel. I know you will be looking after all of your family, friends and clients. David I am so sorry for your loss. It was way too soon, and I can only imagine your pain. She is still with you and your family.
    07/17/2023 11:15 am
    Ebony Farnum lit a candle and writes,
    You will be truly missed, I’m so glad I got the opportunity to meet you.
    07/17/2023 11:21 am
    alan scott lit a candle and writes,
    I will miss talking to you and working with our mutual participants. I know your strong spirit and advocacy will live on.
    07/17/2023 12:10 pm
    Gary L writes,
    It was a pleasure to get to know you. I appreciate how you always helped me at the hospital.
    07/17/2023 01:14 pm
    Stacey Gordy lit a candle and writes,
    My dear sweet, funny, friend … the world is a darker place without your big heart and infectious smile. Thank you for all the wonderful memories and good times . I will miss you. May you be at peace.
    07/17/2023 02:11 pm
    Ethan Kempner lit a candle and writes,
    Thank you Tracy on behalf of myself, and so many other participants in the POW&R. You made so many of our jobs possible, and helped to make our lives fun and fulfilling. You were one of our greatest advocates, and were always there for us! I will miss you and our autism community will miss your passion and presence.
    07/17/2023 03:11 pm
    Erica Sadler lit a candle
    07/17/2023 04:56 pm
    Richard E Sund lit a candle and writes,
    Truly a wonderful blazing soul. "Love you like a turkey club " ... as you often said.
    07/17/2023 06:28 pm
    Ellantae & Lisa lit a candle and writes,
    My family cannot say thanks enough, and how much Tracy's care and efforts were appreciated and will be missed, it was so clear how much she cared about the participants by helping secure the perfect employment. It was very comforting knowing she would always "take care of it"... telling us not to worry because "our girl was good" our prayers and condolences to her family.
    07/17/2023 07:11 pm
    Josephine Popa writes,
    Tracy was a wonderful person . Tracy was dedicated to finding jobs for our participants. Tracy was a very kind and genuine person. I will miss her dearly. I am so happy that I had the opportunity to work with her, My condolences to her family!
    07/17/2023 08:34 pm
    Shannon (Griffin Uhl) writes,
    Our deepest condolences to Tracy’s family. Tracy was such a positive spirit & advocate for my son, Griffin and everyone she touched working at Autism DE. 🙏🏻
    07/17/2023 08:53 pm
    Rob & Heather F lit a candle and writes,
    Praying for the family during this difficult time, rip Tracy. Thank you for everything you did for Rob and I. We will miss you dearly. We will never forget the good times we had with you on the jobs we had.
    07/18/2023 01:10 am
    Ray & Bronto lit a candle and writes,
    You are always in our hearts.
    07/18/2023 08:21 am
    Greg writes,
    My heart hurts so much. You were always there for me and the big sister I never had. The memories we made over my 58 years mean more to me than you will ever know. Take care of Kaiser, Brandy and Zoey for me until we meet again. My heart will be forever broken. I love you my Cous.
    07/18/2023 10:49 am
    Ben no relationship lit a candle and writes,
    I did not know her but I have been a client with Autism Delaware for years. Sorry for your loss and may her legacy live on.
    07/18/2023 11:10 am
    Robert A. Corradetti writes,
    Tracey you will always be remembered as one of the kindest and caring people in our lives.
    07/18/2023 11:48 am
    Scott & Mary Jo Mc Clelland writes,
    We send our deepest condolence Dave. You have our prayers in this difficult time.
    07/18/2023 11:50 am
    Jim Hold lit a candle and writes,
    To the Flanagan family I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers go out to you. Bruce, Bobby, And Dave I have been trying to find you guys on social media for a long time but as you know I never had any luck. If and when your ready please contact me any time!
    07/18/2023 12:57 pm
    Michael Graci writes,
    Tracy, We are grateful for your fierce leadership and advocacy for our son (Tony), our family and the autism community. Tony’s life is forever changed for the good by his interactions with you. We are blessed to have known you. I will miss your expertise and our chats. Sincere condolences to your family.
    07/19/2023 07:20 am
    Karl & Charlotte Coverdale writes,
    Dave, we are so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and family.
    07/19/2023 09:16 am
    Barb Moore writes,
    Tracy- cuz as you called me. Such a tragic loss. You were a wonderful person who touched so many lives. You loved your job and family and often spoke about them. You were a wonderful dog mom to Chief. He ate quite well. You were there for me after I lost Remi and I will never forget. I have many good memories as children visiting you and family in Chadds Ford. Rest in peace. Dave, Uncle Bruce, Aunt Bobbie. David, and Sara my thoughts and prayers are with you. Barb
    07/19/2023 11:33 am
    Karen Feeley lit a candle and writes,
    TRACY,Your light shone through all you did and your open-heartedness was evident the first time i met you. I'm SURE you will be doing your magical work from the other side to the benefit to all who were blessed enough to share your life. You are already missed and cherished for the memories of your glorious spirit. May the peace that passes all understanding envelope Dave, your family,friends, coworkers and special"chums". Rest in the light my friend. Kay
    07/19/2023 05:28 pm
    Valerie Lucc writes,
    You made such a difference in my daighters life. We will miss you. The Luff family
    07/19/2023 07:02 pm
    Timmy McGee lit a candle and writes,
    To the Horn and Flanagan Families: No words can express the loss I feel for you. We all know what force Tracy was. As I prayed and silently talked to her, what I got back was, "Pop's here !!!" Know Tra'y is enjoying Heaven. I always have and always will... P.S. Tracy, hug and squeeze Echo for me......... she's with my Dad !!! Introduce yourself, although he knows who you are!!! ;)
    07/19/2023 10:45 pm
    VOLKER VOEGE lit a candle and writes,
    I had the chance to work with Tracy for Autism of Delaware. Tracy was always there for me and her Adult employees, we had some great times working together and her smile and heartfelt laughter were never far behind. My deepest condolences to David and her family ~ she will always be in our hearts.
    07/20/2023 10:39 am
    Chuck Madden writes,
    Tracy’s dedication and her years of service as an advocate for the Autistic community by helping those with Autism find employment was amazing. I worked with and became friends with Tracy when she worked with my students as a job coach. What I remember most about Tracy is the way always treated everyone she met with respect. To know her was to love her. I witnessed more than once when Tracy would educate those working with her students by explaining to them the right way to interact and respect them. Tracy had an enormous impact on my life. I will miss her laugh and feisty character. She touched the lives of many people and made the world a better place for all those who knew her. I offer my deepest sympathy to Dave and the Flanagan family.
    07/20/2023 01:04 pm
    Joe Miller lit a candle and writes,
    Dave, My sincere condolences. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
    07/20/2023 02:35 pm
    The Watson Family lit a candle and writes,
    There are no words for the legacy Tracy has left on our family. She has made a difference in so many lives. We are grateful for the care and support she gave to our family. Her shining personality will live on in our hearts.
    07/20/2023 05:17 pm
    Gary lohr writes,
    I want to thank her for helping me, always being kind to me and helping me through tough times. Because of Tracy I have a job I love now.❤️ I will forever miss her!
    07/21/2023 09:24 am
    kenneth de groot writes,
    Tracy, We were blessed to have you as a dear friend, and will miss you greatly. Dr. Ken, Nancy, Devona and Denise
    07/21/2023 03:36 pm
    Gina Costalas lit a candle and writes,
    Sending love and peace to Tracy's family and closest friends. I believe that wherever she is, she's lighting up the place with jokes, wit, and good times. She will surely be missed by many. Sometimes, the best people are needed in another place and time. God Bless.
    07/21/2023 06:47 pm
    Jane Miller writes,
    Tracy was such a light in our lives! She formed a special bond with our son and gave her heart and soul to helping him flourish. Her caring made all our lives better. She was blunt and funny, and above all, kind. Her laugh, her warm raspy voice were like hugs. We loved her and will miss her always.
    07/22/2023 09:23 am
    Lorraine Troutner lit a candle and writes,
    Tracy, you were always a ray of sunshine in our lives. You helped our daughter Tara so many times through the years and she just loved you. You did so much for all the students and lives that you have touched. We will be eternally grateful to you for your kind spirit. Sadly, we say goodbye to you today, our beloved friend, Rest in peace, and fly high with the angels.
    07/22/2023 09:37 am
    Raye connor and John white lit a candle and writes,
    We remember Tracey as always being kind and having fun! Have fond memories of her at the Arden Fair, Mexican Post or at Tony's Christmas parties. She will be missed. Condolences to her family Raye and John
    07/22/2023 10:20 am
    Paul Carrol Miller lit a candle and writes,
    Tracy was my job coach for the last eight years. She’s been there to support me, encourage me, and help me obtain the job I have today. It is thanks to her I’ve gotten so far in this part of my life. I couldn’t ask for a better teacher…or a better friend.
    07/22/2023 10:26 am
    Sandi miller lit a candle and writes,
    This is a very sad day.. There is soo many great memories. Gary and Sandi Miller
    07/22/2023 12:28 pm
    Meg & Mark Maurer writes,
    To my cuz and probably my first friend in life… I will forever hold you dear to my heart and hold you close in spirit. I’m so sorry and I love you all, Meg & Mark and our girls 🤍🕊️🤍
    07/22/2023 05:29 pm
    Rose Hicks writes,
    Hey Face - Yo Face!!!!! Love is not written on paper, for paper can be erased. Nor is it etched in stone for stone can be broken. But it is inscribed on a heart and there it shall remain forever....... The loss is immeasurable but so is the love left behind!!!! I will miss you terribly, you were my person! I Love you from the bottom of my heart, straight to my soul! Love you Ro
    07/23/2023 09:33 am
    Charlie Betz
    07/25/2023 03:32 pm
    Katrina Balmir writes,
    Tracy, I am lost for words. Gone too soon. You have touched so many lives including mine. I will cherish our laughter, luncheons and chats. You are missed dearly. You built a legacy and thst light will continue to shine. Rest in Paradise Beautiful.
    11/24/2023 05:33 pm
    David Horn writes,
    Good night my Queen. I Love You.
    12/14/2023 11:47 pm

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