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Robert Mapes Dodge, Jr

Artist, Designer, Woodworker and Audiophile – of Newark, Delaware, passed away, February 3, 2019, at 67 years of age. He was born in Wilmington, Delaware, son of the late Robert Mapes Dodge and Marion “Totey” Ruckman Dodge. Robert was a member of the last graduating class of Rehoboth High School (go Seahawks!), but graduated from Bridgton Academy in Bridgton, Maine, in 1969, and attended the University of Delaware, in Newark. He worked as a bicycle mechanic and as a silk screen artist and printer, as owner of the Eastern Rainbow Factory in Newark, and for other graphic design companies. His silk screen work was used by local artists and in large displays by numerous corporations, including DuPont, and the Museum of Natural History in Philadelphia. He was especially proud of his work for the museum’s dinosaur display.

He was a lover of music, particularly enjoying guitar virtuosos, and had an extensive collection.

Those who were fortunate enough to be close to Robert, or even briefly meet him, had the pleasure of knowing a gentle, loving, generous, intelligent and entertaining man. He loved cats, his wife, family and friends, not necessarily in that order.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by a notable relative, his great-great grandmother, Mary Mapes Dodge, who wrote “Hans Brinker or the Silver Skates,” and was the editor of “St Nicolas Magazine for Children,” and many other accomplished ancestors from both sides of his family. He was also predeceased by his stepmother Jane Chambers Dodge.

Robert is survived by his twin sister Mary Sturges Dodge and husband Tom Evans, sister Susan Kern Dodge, half-brother Peter Mapes Dodge and wife Gina, half-sister Pamela Barclay Dodge, and Peter and Pam’s children. Robert is also survived by his step-siblings John, Jay and Wendy Webb, and Debbie Jones and their families.

Also, he is survived by his wife, Newark artist Laura Spencer, their cats Sugar and Twinkle, and her brothers, Craig and Charlie, and their families in the Northwest. Laura and Robert often visited her family ranch at Grangeville, Idaho. They never missed the July 4th Border Days Western Celebration, with rodeos, parades, and the World’s Largest Super Egg Toss.

A graveside ceremony will be held at All Saints Cemetery, at St. George’s Chapel, Harbeson, Delaware, at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please donate in his memory to a charity of your choice, and/or go listen to some good music!

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    Thomas R. Marshall IV lit a candle and writes,
    Was saddened to read Robert’s obituary in today’s paper . I have many great memories of good times spent with Robert , Sturges and Susan in Rehoboth way back when ! My sincere condolences to all the family and friends of this wonderful soul , who will be missed by all . God bless you ....
    03/03/2019 12:04 pm
    Pat Wisniewski writes,
    Laura and families, I met and got to know Bob when he and I worked together at Dependence Bike Shop and the International Bicycle Warehouse in the mid 1970s. I was lucky enough to spend many an evening at his home listening to great music and local and not so local guitarists who came to stay at his place and play. Long discussions with multiple tangents late into the night were mind-opening and always interesting. Though we hadn’t seen one another much in later years I would see Bob at the woodworking stores where he worked. His gentle, humorous manner, soft knowing laugh, and ready smile always greeted one in a deep and meaningful way. Sailing the Chesapeake with Bob, Charlie Beattie, and Charlie’s Dad is another great memory. Many people we meet in life are but a passing moment, but knowing Bob has left a lesson in my heart. Hugs, Pat
    03/03/2019 12:11 pm
    Fayal Greene writes,
    So sorry not to have known this first cousin. Love and condolences to Sturges.
    03/03/2019 01:06 pm
    Daphne Dodge Walker writes,
    Dear Sturges & Tom, What a wonderful obit of Robert. My memory of him is very vague, but I loved Uncle Bob! He had quite a life and must have been great fun! My husband, Bill, died on Feb. 1st...so I, too, lost a treasured & loved man. My deepest sympathy to you and keep alive those special memories of Robert, a very special Dodge! Love, Daphne
    03/03/2019 06:54 pm
    Catherine Tanzer writes,
    Glad he had a good life. He was good people. So sorry for your loss. catherine
    03/08/2019 05:39 pm
    DAVID C L VESSELS lit a candle and writes,
    I KNEW BOB DODGE, HE LEFT THIS LIFE TO SOON, MY CONDOLENCES TO HIS FAMILY. GODSPEED , DAVID C L VESSELS
    03/08/2019 07:07 pm
    Mike Okner lit a candle and writes,
    Laura, family and friends of Robert, I feel so fortunate to have known Robert and for having the privilege of working together for nearly 15 years at Woodcraft where he was a colleague and friend. His passion for woodworking was exceeded only by his willingness to share his knowledge, always in a nice way, with patience and interest in the other person's project. And yes, retail customers can sometimes be demanding, but Robert always seemed to know how to make the other person feel important. Customers and co-workers alike had only kind words about Robert, for his expertise and his gentle way of interacting. I always looked forward to hearing stories about the latest trip to Idaho for those 4th of July family reunions and local events, especially the great egg toss. As a story teller he was unmatched. All of us at Woodcraft miss him deeply and send our heartfelt condolences.
    03/11/2019 01:24 pm
    Bill Murphy lit a candle and writes,
    Sturges and Susan, Sincere condolences on the passing of Robert. Many fond memories of Robert and all the Dodges in long ago Rehoboth. Keep your memories close. Bill Murphy
    03/12/2019 07:30 pm
    Peter Brooks writes,
    Dodges, Very sorry to hear about B.D.'s passsing. I tried for years to find him after we drifted apart post- University of Delaware in 1974. We were classmates at Bridgton Academy and were thick as thieves - gravitating to one another as the only Delawareans at the school. I was really envious of his cigarette smoking style back then! Sturges, hopefully you remember me and would be willing to call me at 360-903-4300 or email me at retepb388@yahoo.com. Laura, your Grangeville property is 100 miles from Moscow, ID where I went to grad school in the early1980s. If only . . Bob was a wonderful person and a good friend. Peter
    03/14/2019 01:57 pm
    Jamie Mannering writes,
    I recall Bob as Sturges' intense and enthusiastic brother back at the U of D. I admired, what little I knew of, his combative intellect and sense of freedom. Days long past, I wish his family peace, my condolences. Jim in FL.
    08/24/2019 10:17 pm
    Phil Freeborn writes,
    I'm so sorry to hear this news, even if it's not so new any more. I'd have so liked to be at Bob's funeral, and to have met some of the-- no doubt-- wonderful others with whom he shared his life. I met Bob in around 1975, when I was a teenage bicycle freak, and he gave me a piecemeal job assembling the new bikes that arrived in cartons at the shop where he worked. It was a lopsided friendship, given our age difference, but in addition to becoming a kind of guru for me, he was always a gracious and kind mentor, and, dare I say it, a true friend. In the many intervening years, and in spite of my having racked up about a gazillion miles of road left behind, I've thought of him often, and occasionally searched for him online. Now I wish I'd reached out while I still had the chance; the lesson in it for us all is that one probably ought not to waste any opportunity to share the admiration one feels. With my eyes closed I can still transport myself back to the day he played "Boogie On Reggae Woman" by Stevie Wonder for me, through his Ohm F speakers while I sat on the overstuffed easy chair in his Newark living room. It's a memory that is as alive for me now as it has always been, and as alive as he will always be, in my heart. I still tell his stories, I still follow his advice, and I'm sure I always will. Phil Freeborn Berlin, Germany
    10/18/2020 11:37 am
    Philip Crichton lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences to Bob's family and his sisters. I was shocked to learn of his passing. Our parents were long and close friends.
    04/02/2021 12:54 am

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