Patrick “Pat” D. Ziesing

Condolences

Robert, Kathleen, Emily, Lisa
09/14/2019 01:57 am
BT Lee writes,
Pat was one of the nicest kids at Pilot School and at Sanford. He would always joke around and we played basketball together with Billy Hyland for many years. He got along with everyone and he made any atmosphere that was awkward some how bearable. The Z-Man was one of a kind, who I knew loved his mother and father very much. Pat was a light here in Delaware during any dark situation. I know deep down the gates above opened up for Patty Z based off of to many stories of how he helped so many different types of characters throughout his life. He will be missed, but never forgotten. Please let me know about the October 12th celebration. My condolences, Patty Z's friend "The Big Thunder." BT Lee
09/14/2019 08:55 pm
mark shields lit a candle and writes,
So sad and sorry to hear the news of Pat's passing. The above description of Pat as a kind and gentle soul is how I remember him. I also think of the constant smile on his face. My deepest condolences to all of Pat's family and friends, especially Emma.
09/15/2019 07:35 am
karan guyon writes,
Dear Rick and Leslie We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. There are no words. We are neighbors and we are here if we can help in any way. Our prayers and love to you and your family
09/15/2019 04:20 pm
Kenda Kile lit a candle
09/16/2019 08:29 am
Cheryl Downer writes,
Rick, Leslie and Emma, Frank and I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
09/16/2019 05:25 pm
Mike Gibson and family lit a candle and writes,
Our family loved Patrick. Patrick had a kind heart, a gentle disposition, and a rascally sense of humor. We have many happy memories of being with Patrick and his family through all his years. Many of the best times were spent at the beach where he always had a great time surrounded by his parents, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles. The best was yet to come for Patrick after meeting DeAnna Marie. They loved each other and were planning their future together. His death leaves us broken-hearted for the years he had ahead of him and for the sorrow and pain of losing him felt by his family and all of us who loved him. He will be with us always.
09/16/2019 11:50 pm
Jeff & Lezlie Schoch writes,
Although it was a lot of years ago, we still remember Patrick as the sweetest little guy across the street on Monroe Place, who was so loved by his parents and all their friends and neighbors. We are so sorry for the loss of your precious son, Jan and Rick, and all your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
09/17/2019 10:26 am
Bonnie Sherr writes,
Rick, Jan and family, I was so sorry to hear about Pat. My heart goes out to all of you! Love, Bonnie Sherr
09/17/2019 01:19 pm
Tim Hancock lit a candle and writes,
Pat was my first friend at Friends School. By 2nd grade he had me convinced he was a street fighter who owned a pair of brass knuckles, had gotten to see Arnold Schwarzenegger wrestle Mr. T at Universal Studios, where Arnold told him he was a cool kid; and there was a baby Schwarzenegger who could lift a lot of weights. Pat was the most gifted storyteller I have ever met and you wanted to believe his stories because they made the world much more wondrous. He had the wit to match and often we had to be separated during class for laughing uncontrollably. In high school he’d come up with catch phrases that were soon adopted by all the students. It’s no exaggeration to say that Pat influenced our style of language: I still tell stories the way he would have. My condolences to his family, who always welcomed me with open arms (even if Rick thought I was too old for footy pajamas).
09/17/2019 08:37 pm
Sam Gibson lit a candle and writes,
As Patrick's younger cousin I always looked up to him, and anticipated the time we spent together with high excitement. Patrick was just an all around great person to be around no matter the situation. He was one of the funniest, wittiest people I have ever known and brightened every room. Pats voice seemed to make everything he said more interesting, funnier and more sincere, it is something I will never forget. You will always be in our hearts.
09/17/2019 09:14 pm
Ben Farver lit a candle and writes,
Patrick was truly unique in every aspect, and everyone he leaves behind will miss is genuine kindness, warmth, and humor. He had a contagious laugh and smile immediately apparent to everyone that was lucky enough to spend time with him. He'll be missed dearly, and I'm so glad I got to see Patrick and meet DeAnna last month.
09/18/2019 03:25 pm
Meaghan Farver lit a candle and writes,
So many of my best memories include Patrick. Every summer he is who I looked forward to seeing the most at the beach. We played for hours inventing games in the ocean and staying up laughing when we were supposed to be sleeping. I feel so lucky I got to spend time with Patrick and DeAnna this past year, you could tell they had something very special between them. I am truly heart broken for DeAnna and their sweet pup. Sending so much love to her, my Aunt Jan, Uncle Charlie and everyone who is missing Pac. Love, May may.
09/18/2019 04:54 pm
Lindsay Tharp Vick writes,
I'm at a loss for words which for me is seldom a thing. My carpool buddy and birthday twin. The bestfriend of my childhood nemesis, you remained a friend to all. Fly high buddy.
09/23/2019 12:27 am
Judy Gibson lit a candle and writes,
Oh Patrick, so many memories, so much to say. I remember you as a happy smiling child. Our family spent many summer vacations together at the beach, Patrick loved the beach! One particularly rainy week, (when they were both very young and bored), he and his cousin Meaghan almost "took down" the beach house, and even that was fun. Christmas always wearing the Santa hat and passing out presents, Patrick loved Christmas! This summer we all got together (a rare event), cousins he hadn't seen in years, some meeting the love of his life DeAnna for the first time. We will all cherish that memory, it was just too short. Patrick loved his family! My heart breaks for his devoted parents. Jan and Rick you loved him unconditionally, always there for him, and he knew it. Patrick always greeted me with a "Hey Jude", I can hear it now. He was someone you would want as a friend, always smiling, never complaining, non-judgemental, accepting, abounding with kindness, and with a wonderful sense of humor. I will never understand why a person with his character and spirit could be gone from this earth at such an early age. He deserved so much more. If words could sum up a too short life (which they can't) I would have to say, he lived, he laughed, he loved. We will all miss him more than words can express. Love you forever Pack! Your loving Aunt "Jude"
09/24/2019 04:03 pm
Melissa Morrill lit a candle and writes,
Pat, Patt Z, P Ziddy, Lovey, Pac, Simon Birch, Patrick- was one of my first and most favorite friends at Sanford School. It is not always easy to come into a high school brand new where you barely know anyone. Pat made it easy for me. He came right up and introduced himself, started drilling me with questions, and told me if I needed help or direction just ask. He immediately started poking fun at me (in a positive way)cracking jokes, and giving nicknames. Most of my fondest memories of my time at Sanford involve Pat. Walks to Chapel Valley, trips to Two Cousins and Capriottis, Valley Gardens, Meek's house, etc. Pat was always kind and a great supporter. Even after the high school years we remained in contact. We would call each other to vent or to share new funny exciting stories. Anytime I gambled Pat and I would connect and he would tell me where to place bets on the Roulette table. The last time I saw Pat was in 2014, he came to my barn to watch me ride and then we went for a glorious hike! I can still hear him saying, "Melly Mel", "And there it is", "You turd", "Lovey", "I got skills you won't believe" "Hey Buddy...kinda weird", and many more. In 2015, Pat told me he fell in love and it changed his life. He was so very excited and able to share all the wonderful love he had to offer. Pat loved his family, friends, animals, music, and stories. I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to be one of those friends and Pat will forever live in my heart. My condolences to his family and DeAnna.
10/13/2019 03:41 pm
Jackie hicks writes,
When I started working at Walgreens in Kennett, Pat helped so much!! We had a lot of fun. I am so sad to just now find that he passed. He will be greatly missed by all of us ! What a great guy, so so sorry
12/28/2019 03:53 pm