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Louise Truesdale Loening

Born in New York, NY in 1931, Louise Loening was the eldest child of Grover Cleveland Loening and Marka Truesdale Loening (later Marka T. duPont) and died peacefully at home, surrounded by family, on December 20, 2024. She was 93.

Ms. Loening grew up in Mill Neck, New York and Charlotte, Vermont, moving to Delaware in 1958 and then Pennsylvania in 1992. Ms. Loening was a graduate of Putney School, Putney Vermont, and received degrees from Bennington College and the University of Delaware.

She loved the theater, and was a theater and music major at Bennington. After Bennington she joined an off Broadway theatre company in New York, where she played a number of roles in productions over several years. After moving to Delaware and Pennsylvania, she continued to act in many local amateur productions, mostly Shakespeare plays with the Lyceum Players.

For over 40 years, Ms. Loening pursued a variety of careers with particular focus on volunteer work in Delaware and elsewhere.  For the Nation’s bicentennial in 1976, she was appointed by the Governor as the Executive Director of the Delaware Bicentennial Commission and organized her State’s participation in that grand national celebration. After 1976, Ms. Loening worked for the University of Delaware’s development office and in 1980 became a Magistrate Judge for New Castle County’s Justice of the Peace Courts. Choosing not to be reappointed to the bench, Ms. Loening left Delaware in 1986 to live and work in Calcutta, India for Mother Theresa’s Missionaries of Charity—the seminal volunteer experience of her life. She returned annually to Calcutta between 1986 and 1990. There, she worked alongside the Sisters and Brothers of the order, first in the orphanage and then the leprosy center in nearby Titigarrh, India. Prior to this work, Ms. Loening studied at the U.S. Public Health Hospital for Hansen’s disease in Carville, Louisiana. While there, she learned to diagnose and treat Hansen’s in a limited field work environment.

During her 5-6 month stays in Calcutta, Ms. Loening worked with Mother Theresa daily, and was inspired by this work to convert from the Episcopal church and be received into the Catholic faith in 1989.

Her other volunteer work over the years included years of service at the Delaware State Hospital and other mental health organizations. She was also active in English-as-a-Second-Language in several Wilmington public schools. Upon her return to Delaware full time in 1990, Ms. Loening began a decades long volunteer position working with Brother Ronald Giannone of the Ministry of Caring and its childcare center in Wilmington. Beginning in 1992, Ms. Loening also became a court appointed special advocate, representing foster children under the Delaware courts’ purview. Most recently, Ms. Loening volunteered as a teacher assistant in the Guardian Angel Kindergarten in Wilmington.

Her honors and publications include Resolutions of Gratitude, in 1976, from the Delaware Legislature, an award of service from the Delaware Mental Health Association, and an award from the Phi Kappa Alpha Society. In 1987, the Encyclopedia Britannica published her report on pediatric malnutrition and treatment in Mother Theresa’s orphanage. That same year, the New Oxford Review published her narrative “A Day in the Life of a Volunteer in Mother Theresa’s Mission to the Poor in Calcutta.” From 1987 to 1992, Ms. Loening served on the Board of Trustees of Bennington College.

Ms. Loening was a lifelong member of the Society of the Mayflower Descendants of N.Y.

She was predeceased by her husband, Dr. Irwin Greenfield in 2005, and her brother, Michael T. Loening in 1977. She is survived by her sister, Priscilla Loening Hanford, of Chico, California; her half-brother Christopher T. duPont (and Holley duPont), of Ketchum, Idaho; daughter Mia Carroll Edsall (and Dr. Steve Edsall) of Bellevue, Idaho; son William Loening Prickett (and Elizabeth Prickett), of Danvers, Massachusetts; daughter Priscilla Prickett Cook, of Chicago, Illinois; stepsons Richard Greenfield (and Nancy) and Steven Greenfield (and Sheila) both of Dallas, Texas and stepdaughter Hermine Greenfield Brindak (and Paul), of Old Greenwich, Connecticut. She is also survived by 6 grandchildren, 7 step grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren.

A Memorial Mass will be offered at St. Joseph’s on the Brandywine at 11:00 a.m. on February 22, 2025. Interment will be private. Following the Mass and internment, the family will gather at the Vicmead Hunt Club to celebrate her amazing life, and invites all family and friends to join them there.

The family suggests a donation to the Ministry of Caring in lieu of flowers.

For online condolences, please visit www.chandlerfuneralhom.com.

 

Funeral Services

A Memorial Mass will be offered at St. Joseph’s on the Brandywine at 11:00 a.m. on February 22, 2025. Interment will be private. Following the Mass and internment, the family will gather at the Vicmead Hunt Club to celebrate her amazing life, and invites all family and friends to join them there.

Condolences

    Liza Hanford Whitmore writes,
    “Aunti Weez”, my aunt and godmother, was always the best pal. Her boundless energy was matched by her caring and generosity of spirit. I treasure many memories of times with Louise, especially those years when I lived in Delaware as well as the many fun parties and adventures she organized over the years for family and friends. RIP dear Louise and keep the angels laughing with your irascible humor.
    12/30/2024 06:16 pm
    Lisa Fisher writes,
    Louise was a very special lady. She was very dear to me. We also had so many good times together, I was truly blessed to have her in my life.
    01/05/2025 08:59 pm
    MaryAnn Di Angelis lit a candle and writes,
    Met Louise while doing her Mother Marka’s hair here in Delaware in the 80s and early 90s. She was very nice to me and very appreciative of doing her Mom’s hair at Marka’s home. RIP Louise.
    01/06/2025 08:33 pm
    Br. Ronald Giannone, OFM Cap. writes,
    To the family of Louise Truesdale Loening from the Ministry of Caring 'family': Our sympathy and prayers are with you during this very sad time. May your wonderful memories of joyful family times bring you comfort and may God's love give you peace. We were grateful to have Louise's caring, energy, love, and dedication for the children in the Ministry's child care centers; thank you for sharing her with us. Thank you also for remembering Louise's matchless life of love of family and friends, leadership, dedication to her state, her community, and the countless causes in which she believed by caring for the poorest among us--especially the children of the poor--as she has done. We ae grateful for your kindness and caring. Psalms 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Br. Ronald Giannone, OFM Cap.
    01/07/2025 05:04 pm
    Davida Robinson Alladin writes,
    Miss Louise was my sweetheart. Not only did she volunteer in my classroom in many ways, she was my friend. I trusted her with my secrets; and she gave me some great advice. She was also a blessing to my three adult children. Her memory will live on in my heart and I will try to give to others the way she inspired me to do. Miss louise, thank you for everything. I am confident that God is proud of you.
    01/26/2025 11:16 am
    Mary Fisher lit a candle and writes,
    She was so amazing; I loved talking with her and just spending time together. She loved everyone and did so much for others. She will be missed dearly.
    02/03/2025 11:29 pm
    MARQUEITA Bianca ALLADIN writes,
    Mr Louise was a very dear friend to our family. I got to know her as a preteen. She was always so sweet and loving. At one point in college I had some financial issues and had to sit out a semester. But I was able to return because of Miss Louise. She was the type of person that always looked out for those in need and wanted nothing in return. I wanted to repay her but all she gave me was a you're welcome....... That's who she was; KIND. Miss Louise will always have a special place in my heart.
    02/20/2025 07:46 am
    Maria duPont lit a candle and writes,
    Louise was in ways a second mother to me, always keen to know how I was doing and eager to catch up on all our family news. We loved visiting because Louise was the most lively, fun, and irreverently faithful friend! She would frequently say that she was the last of our parent's age left. And now she is in heaven with the choir of angels listening to Bach's B Minor Mass with my mom and dad, loving every minute! Sending all my love and prayers to the whole family. Xoxo, Maria duPont
    02/20/2025 01:04 pm
    Bob Penneys writes,
    How could anyone do justice for Louise. What an incredible character, personality, mind, memory, brutal sense of humor, piercing voice, you name it. Every time I called her she would work me over. I loved it. When we visited her she would be the oldest person to smoke a cigarette. We miss her voice and going to see her. What a perfect choice for our running mate. We love you, Louise, and miss you. Enjoy turning the afterlife upside down if you like.
    02/21/2025 06:18 pm
    Michael lit a candle and writes,
    I met Louise in Kolkata in 1990 when we were both working with Mother Teresa's Sisters. We shared work and we shared going to mass, and I vividly remember a relaxed breakfast at the Oberoi Grand hotel as a highlight of the many long conversations that we had. The following year I visited her in Wilmington and the sharing of hopes and thoughts continued and we went to mass together again and prayed for a more caring world. Thirty years later I'm a priest myself, and so I'll offer mass for you this week. Louise, you were a wonderful woman who lived a remarkable life. I pray that I'll join you on the other side when my time comes.
    02/21/2025 06:41 pm
    Lise Parker lit a candle and writes,
    Before Louise was my mother’s friend and neighbor, she was my friend and neighbor in Landenberg. She had a house on the top of the hill filled with light and art. We would chat when I rode my horse by. She set up a jump in her yard for us. We shared a love of horses and dogs and parties. Louise had great parties. I hope her kind, generous and fun loving spirit will stay close to us in the coming years. She was amazing.
    02/22/2025 11:17 am

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