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Joseph F. Weir

Joseph F. Weir, 80, of Wilmington, Delaware, passed away peacefully on December 21, 2024. Born and raised in Southwest Philadelphia, Joe was proud of his roots, often reminiscing about his days at West Catholic High School and his time spent at his beloved parish, MBS. He was a fixture of his community, cherishing both his upbringing and the bonds he forged throughout his life.  

Joe’s journey took him from Southwest Philly to Delaware County and eventually to Wilmington, where he and his wife, Sue, built a loving home. Together for 58 years, their love story began in high school and grew stronger through the decades as they shared a lifetime of family, laughter, and adventures. Joe and Susan were inseparable, whether enjoying quiet moments with their children and grandchildren or celebrating at happy hours and family gatherings.

A man of deep family values, Joe spent his childhood summers in Wildwood, New Jersey, where he created lifelong memories with his parents, sisters, aunts, uncles, and cousins—a tradition he carried on with his own family, making sure his children and grandchildren enjoyed the same joyful summers at the shore.

After retiring, Joe devoted himself to his family, always eager to hear their stories and take delight in the accomplishments of his grandchildren.

Joe had a special gift for entertaining, often assuming playful characters like CR Bottoms and Mr. Happy Hour, always making people laugh with his charm and wit. But his most beloved role was as Santa Claus, where his warmth, kindness, and generosity made Christmas brighter for so many.

Joe loved his time as Santa Claus at Harry’s and Longwood Gardens, a role he cherished for over 20 years. Joe loved bringing joy to children and their families, and the sparkle in their eyes as they approached him was a gift he treasured every year.

Joe was born into an Irish Catholic family, the son of Mary and Joseph Weir. He was the oldest of five siblings, and his love for family was evident in his close relationships with his sisters: Rosemary Daley (Tom),Kathleen Serano (Tom),Judith Hendricks(Rus), and Jeannie Dalton.

In addition to his wife, Sue, Joe is survived by his four children: Michael J. Weir (Pam), Jenn Hough (Sam), James Weir (Christine), and Sarah Weir. He was a proud grandfather to Maddy, Jake, Kenny, Dalton, Mckenzie, Hannah, Kailey, and Jimmy. Joe’s compassion, sense of humor, and vibrant personality will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

Joe leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and family—a legacy that will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

Funeral Services

A viewing will be held at Chandler Funeral Home, located 2506 Concord Pike in Wilmington, DE, on Friday, December 27th, from 6:00 to 8:00 PM. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, located 4701 Weldin Rd, in Wilmington, DE, at 11:30 AM on Saturday, December 28th. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of your choice in Joe’s memory.

Condolences

    Debby Wolski lit a candle and writes,
    My sincere condolences go out to your entire family. I have fond memories for when Mr. Weir was Santa at our school and my oldest granddaughter experienced his magic. May you find comfort in your many family memories. It was an honor to meet him.
    12/24/2024 09:40 am
    Cheryl Datillo lit a candle and writes,
    My sincere sympathy to the whole family. A fond memory would be when we were all new to Pierson Farm. One Halloween a knock on the door. I opened it and saw Santa(Joe) He walks in with a Christmas tree all decorated (Sue) and plugs her into the nearest outlet. When Sue lit up my Fred laughed so hard and said” you two lit up my night.” May all your memories bring a smile.
    12/24/2024 09:55 am
    Lane and Russell Hendricks lit a candle and writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss. Joe will be deeply missed but forever remembered for the warmth and love he generously spread.
    12/24/2024 10:56 am
    Rich SpinettA writes,
    Gon,ah miss you Joe always looked for your car that you and Sue where hear ..rest in peace my friend..
    12/24/2024 11:22 am
    Becky Phillips lit a candle and writes,
    Our sincere sympathy for your loss of such an amazing Pop! We will forever hold his magic in our hearts!
    12/24/2024 07:38 pm
    Bobbi Fisher lit a candle and writes,
    Always a blessing, not only to his family but to everyone he encountered. May his contagiously kind, lively, generous, loving presence always fill your hearts and inspire your paths.
    12/24/2024 10:05 pm
    Mike Curry lit a candle and writes,
    Joe and I met in 11th grade. Been friends ever since. Sometime I thought I've might have been family. I think maybe Joe made everyone he met be part of his family.
    12/24/2024 10:10 pm
    Brooke Terranova writes,
    My deepest condolences to all of you. I enjoyed sitting with Joe on the bench in Wildwood and listening to his many stories. Joe will be dearly missed.
    12/26/2024 09:01 am
    Tom haws lit a candle and writes,
    So sorry to hear about Joe Lots of fond memories on Pierson drive. Our backyard’s will never be the same. Lots of memories when the happy hour flag came out. He will surely be missed.
    12/26/2024 09:45 am
    Sharon Tracy Squire-Stewart lit a candle and writes,
    I met Joe & Sue when we moved in next door to them in 2013. In 2017, my son Justin came upstairs and said, "Mom, Santa is at the door!" I came down and saw Joe in full St Nick gear. He was visiting all the homes on our street. Always a smile for everyone, that was Joe. We are really going to miss our friend and neighbor, the "Mayor of Pierson Farm", Joseph Weir.
    12/26/2024 05:40 pm
    Hannah Sviridovsky
    12/26/2024 11:31 pm
    Suzanne Langan writes,
    Sending love and prayers to Mike, Pam, Maddy, Jake, Kenny and your family during this difficult time.
    12/27/2024 08:08 am
    Laurie Van Horn writes,
    Mike and Pam and family my deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. Mark and Laurie Van Horn
    12/27/2024 09:42 am
    Tom and Bonnie Horan lit a candle and writes,
    My sincerest sympathy to you Sue and your entire family for your loss of Joe. I am a childhood friend of Joe's throughout our grammer 3rd grade ( MBS ) and high school years ( West Catholic ). We kept renewing our friendship after all 3 reunions ( 10th, 25, and 50th )as the original Class of 1962. I appreciated seeing Joe again in May of 2024 after joining a final mini-union with our close friends from childhood. Joe always displayed an excellent memory of past happenings and kept us entertained with stories. He is joyful of his life story and love of family. I will hold his memory in my heart as a forever friend.
    12/27/2024 02:53 pm
    John McCullough lit a candle and writes,
    Joe Weir was a special man that loved and enjoyed his family, Joe always had a happy greeting, smile and a tale to tell. From SW Philly to Rively Ave to Pierson Drive he was the best neighbor and friend you could wish for. We will miss you. Irma n John McCullough
    12/27/2024 03:07 pm
    Xavier Teixido lit a candle and writes,
    So very kind and someone who always made you feel welcome. I will particularly remember Joe as Santa to all the children at Harry's, where he was so warm and genuine to all the children (and parents). The stories that he would share from the children really touched him and all of us. It showed how deeply he cared for others and truly just wanted the best for all that he met. Joe loved giving to his community and it showed. I wish the entire family and his friends only fond memories as you share stories of your time together and the legacy that he leaves. RIP, Joe Weir, a good man.
    12/27/2024 04:18 pm
    Mary Koster lit a candle and writes,
    Though I did not know Sarah’s father personally, I know Sarah. She is her father’s light shining through her! I don’t know of another family that shows as much love and caring for each other. When your family members are also your best friends, that says a awful lot! Rest In Peace, Mr. Weir. I know for sure that you will be missed, but also that you have a place in heaven.
    12/27/2024 04:50 pm
    Cathy Stamegna writes,
    Hannah, Kailey, and Jimmy, So sorry to hear about your grandfather. I had no idea that he would be the person whose Mass I would be playing at IHM. He seemed like a wonderful grandfather. Mrs. Stamegna
    12/27/2024 08:18 pm
    Thomas Machulski lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Sue & Family, I did not know Joe was sick . My heart goes out to you & your family. He was always willing to help and bring right across the street we would have many conversations. I can't even imagine that he is not there . Our interactions with our children kept us all busy .I will always keep him in my prayers. Tom
    12/31/2024 06:04 pm
    CAROLYN writes,
    I am so sorry for your loss; Joe was the best Boss on 24th Street! He will be missed !😢
    02/20/2025 07:27 am

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