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John E. Benzel, MD

Dr. John E. Benzel, age 86, of Greenville, DE, and formerly of Kiawah Island, SC, died on February 13, 2020 after a short illness. John was born in Milwaukee, WI to Charles F. and Janet Benzel, and moved to Wilmington, DE in the late 1930’s. He attended Friends School, then graduated from Choate Rosemary Hall in 1951, and Yale University in 1955. He received his Medical Degree from the University of Pennsylvania in 1959 and married Betsy Jean Waddell that same year. Together they raised two children. He served in the Army Medical Corps from 1960-1962 and then completed his residency in Hematology and Internal Medicine at George Washington University Hospital in Washington DC from 1962-1966.

John and Betsy settled back in Wilmington in 1966, where he joined Dr. John J. Egan’s Hematology practice, the first in Delaware. They worked together for many years and expanded the practice to include six other doctors; their work also formed the basis for the state’s multiple Hematology practices today. John was Board Certified by the American Societies of Hematology, Internal Medicine, and Clinical Pathologists, and was a member of the Delaware Clinical and Laboratory Pathologists from 1966-1993.

Upon his retirement in 1993, John remained a busy man! He was a member of the Island Choraliers, a men’s singing group, and was also a member of the Kiawah Island Club and Wilmington Country Club, where he enjoyed playing tennis, golf, and swimming his daily laps. He was well-known on Kiawah Island for organizing a thrice-weekly tennis group of men (and occasionally women), aged 40-90, that attracted up to 30 players on any given day. Also in retirement, his lifelong appreciation of classical music developed into an interest in and love of opera. He educated himself on the genre and created a weekly “Opera Lite” class which he taught on Kiawah and Seabrook Islands for 16 years, and more recently, back at Stonegates Retirement Community in Greenville. Even non-fans became fans as he brought the performances to life by narrating streamlined versions of the plots, pointing out unique features to be appreciated, and regaling fans with some of the “back stories.”

John is survived by his wife of 61 years, Betsy, his daughter and son-in-law Sherry & Peter Willard, his son Mark and fiancé Sarah Murray, as well as Mark’s children Meghan Foxx (husband Bobby), Shelby Sims (husband Tevin), and Brock Benzel; and Sarah’s children Magnus, Beatrice, and Katerina Murray; and great granddaughter Presley Foxx. He was predeceased by his brother Charles F. Benzel, Jr. John’s family would like to thank the nursing and therapy staff of Stonegates Healthcare for their expert and loving care of him in recent months.

Funeral Services

A reception will be held at Wilmington Country Club on Saturday February 29, 2020 from 4:00-6:00PM to honor his life and memory. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the American Cancer Society.

Condolences

    Priscilla Moses writes,
    I was sorry to hear of Dr.Benzel’s passing. Although it has been many years since I’ve seen him ,I remember when I was a patient of his and Dr.Egan. He was a a very caring and attentive person . I am sure through his expertise and concern for me and my condition that I am still here today. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Sincerely, Priscilla Moses
    02/22/2020 11:13 am
    Susan Mulvihill writes,
    My deepest sympathies to Mrs. Benzel, her children, grandchildren and great grandchild. In July 1973 I started my nursing career on the Medical Teaching floor at the Delaware Division. With no knowledge of Hematologic Diseases, I was quickly overwhelmed. Dr. John Benzel become my role model, teacher, father figure, advocate and eventually my boss. Most importantly he also became my friend. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to spend time with you Dr. John in these last six months. Rest In Peace “Saint John”
    02/22/2020 04:00 pm
    Kevin Jornlin writes,
    To my friends and neighbors the Benzels. So sorry for your loss but my family is celebrating the life and memory of a true gentleman, Dr. Benzel! He was there for our family and I suspect many others. God bless John Benzel and the Benzel family!
    02/24/2020 08:52 am
    Debbie Foxx writes,
    So deeply sorry for your loss!! What an incredible man and a great loss!!! 💔
    02/28/2020 12:17 pm
    Brenda Buck lit a candle and writes,
    Very sorry for your loss
    02/29/2020 08:54 am
    Anne Ferrara writes,
    Dear Benzel family - I wanted to take this time to let you know that your dad saved my dad's life - I remember him so we;; - what a terrific doctor - with such an ability to show his patients how much he cared. My dad at age 64 had non-hodgkins lymphoma and Dr. Benzel was the best around. I'll never forget him and just wanted to share my experience with you all - his family. My he rest in peace because he sure deserves it. Thank you Doc - as my dad would say to him. God Bless you all.
    03/08/2020 08:32 pm

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