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Carolyn Boddorff Giles

Carolyn Boddorff Giles, 78, of Wilmington, DE passed peacefully with her family by her side on June 20th, 2021 from the effects of leukemia. The devoted and beloved wife of Dr. Howard “Howdy” Cameron Giles, Jr. and loving mother to Robin Giles Elliott (David) and Julie Giles Kelly (Matt).

Born December 6, 1942 in Havertown, PA, Carolyn was the only child of Clarence and Dorothea Boddorff. She was a graduate of Dover High School and attended the University of Delaware where she met Howdy, her soul mate and husband of 57 years. The University of Delaware symbolized the start of their wonderful lifetime together and where she and Howdy developed close friendships that forever enriched their lives. Carolyn was captain of the cheerleading squad when the Blue Hens won the National Championship in football in 1963. They remained avid Blue Hen fans, loved tailgating with friends before home football games, and have been season ticket holders for more than 50 years.

Her life’s journey was filled with so many life enhancing experiences, from traveling and cruising to countless golf excursions across the U.S. and abroad. She was a passionate Philadelphia sports fan, especially the Phillies and Eagles, traveling to two of the three Eagles Super Bowl appearances. She loved to dance, sew, spend time with family, play bridge, do aerobics with friends, and go to concerts. She loved country music but her absolute favorite was Neil Diamond. “Sweet Caroline” will forever be a song that reminds her family and friends of her vibrant nature.

She and Howdy also spent a great deal of time at The Bay Hill Club in Orlando, Florida during the course of the year, another homestead that provided extraordinary friendships and life experiences that she treasured.

Carolyn’s qualities were limitless but she will be most remembered for her unconditional love of her family, especially her four grandchildren, Cameron, Giles, Luke and Lindsay. She may have left us in body, however she will never, ever, leave us in spirit.

Affectionately called “The Queen of Cool” by the love of her life, Carolyn’s engaging personality and fun-loving spirit will be deeply missed by so many.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Carolyn Giles’ memory may be made to the Arnold Palmer Hospital for Children or the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.

 

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    James & Jacqueline Durborow lit a candle and writes,
    So sorry for your loss. Wishing you God’s peace. Jim & Jackie Durborow
    06/22/2021 01:51 pm
    Aaron Schultz lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy I am so sorry for the loss of your Queen of Cool. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Aaron Sioux Falls, SD
    06/22/2021 02:43 pm
    Judy Kelly lit a candle and writes,
    Dr. Giles & family, So very sorry for your loss. She was truly a wonderful woman ~ ALWAYS with her beautiful smile lighting up her face. We enjoyed seeing you both at Stanley's & talking about our wonderful grandchildren. I will always continue to think of her when I hear HER song & remember the story of her going back stage. She truly was Sweet Carolyn. Love to you & your family. Judy Kelly
    06/22/2021 03:17 pm
    Rose Mattei writes,
    Beautiful, vibrant, the best of the best, and cooler than cool. I will always remember her as the life of the party! May Carolyn Rest In Peace. My thoughts and prayers are with Dr. Giles and your beautiful family. May all your fondest memories help to heal your sadness. My deepest sympathy, Rose Mattei
    06/22/2021 09:37 pm
    Shelly (Sheing) Towler writes,
    Robin, Julie and Dr. Giles, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be thinking of you and wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time. Remember the times you shared with happiness and love.
    06/22/2021 10:21 pm
    Ray Stevenson writes,
    Howdy & family, How will you know which printers to get rid of now? Will miss her friendly welcome. Our prayers are with you and your family.
    06/23/2021 06:46 am
    John stuart writes,
    So sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. You two were definitely Soul Mates and together lit up any room you were in.My thoughts and prayers are with you. John Stuart Unionville Pa
    06/23/2021 06:47 am
    Brian Trout lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy and family...sending our deepest condolences during this difficult time. What wonderful memories we have of Carolyn and your entire family during and after our time at WCC. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
    06/23/2021 06:51 am
    Mark, Laura and Alex Russell lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Giles Family, We are very sad to hear about Carolyn. We have fond memories of seeing y’all at Bay Hill. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers and may your great memories of her wonderful life give you comfort. Mark, Laura and Alexandria Russell
    06/23/2021 08:17 am
    Elvira kipp writes,
    Dear Howdy and Family I’m so sorry for your loss Thoughts and Prayers to you and your family Peace
    06/23/2021 08:29 am
    Sally Springer lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy, I was so sorry to hear of Carolyns passing. She was a very special lady, loved by all who met her. It will be a month since Don’s passing and it’s still surreal too me❤️
    06/23/2021 09:00 am
    Jane Nix lit a candle and writes,
    So heartbreaking. Even though I was around Carolyn a short time I feel like she was a dear friend. Lots of love and peace to you and precious family.
    06/23/2021 10:57 am
    Skip and Mary Loessner writes,
    Dear Howdy and family, We are saddened to learn of the passing of Carolyn and the loss this brings to you all. Howdy, Mary and I have been soulmates for many years. I know this must be very difficult. Our best wishes and most positive thoughts. Skip and Mary
    06/23/2021 11:18 am
    Bix Bush writes,
    Howdy, I was so sorry to read about the passing of your wife....My thoughts are with you and your gang during this time...I always enjoyed listening to you talk about her and your different trips., while I sat in your chair and couldn't talk, only listen.. Fondly, Bix
    06/23/2021 01:20 pm
    Donna Martone Cohen writes,
    I am so very sad for all of you! Carolyn was so very special! Beautiful inside and out! I hope that she was able to read her wonderful obituary. May peace and love surround you at this difficult time. God bless you all! I am so very sad for all of you! Carolyn was so very special! Beautiful inside and out! I hope that she was able to read the wonderful obituary. I wish you all peace and love! xxoo
    06/23/2021 06:43 pm
    Lou Ann Caldwell writes,
    Dear Howdy, l send my most sincere condolences to you and your family. I am shocked by your loss as all your many pictures showed such robust healthy pictures. You were so lucky to have enjoyed such a wonderful happy life together. The times ahead will be hard. I hope your memories and pictures will help you in the coming days and months keeping her close in spirit. I’m so very sorry Howdy. Take care, Lou Ann
    06/23/2021 06:52 pm
    Roger Hahn writes,
    Howdy - So sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and the girls. Sincerely, Marilyn and Roger Hahn
    06/23/2021 08:36 pm
    Richard and Nancy Mayfield writes,
    Howdy, in these most difficult times, Nance and I want to express our sorrow for your loss. You and Carolyn have been friends for so long. Her passing brings sadness to both of us.
    06/23/2021 08:45 pm
    Martin Walzer writes,
    Howdy, I am so sorry to receive this news. There has not been an hour go by this week that I haven't been thinking of you and the girls. I had no idea that Carolyn was this sick. I wish that I could join and support you personally. I myself am in a period of recovery from surgery and am yet not capable of traveling, but my thoughts and prayers are definitely with you. Cindy joins me in wishing you comfort and the strength to go on. Marty
    06/23/2021 09:13 pm
    Mark & Terri Fox lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy and family. So sorry Now Arnold, Winnie ,Howard and Yvonne can be reunited. They can continue there friendship, love and fun for eternity
    06/23/2021 11:22 pm
    Joe Dobrolecki lit a candle and writes,
    I am deeply saddened to hear the news of one of my favorite members from Bayhill! Mrs Giles was one of many caring and loving members I got to know through the 5years I was at Bayhill. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and ofcourse her amazing husband Dr Howdy Giles! You will forever be loved and missed ❤️ love always Big Joe
    06/24/2021 12:39 am
    Don Dunn writes,
    Howdy, I am so sorry to hear from Doug Johnston of the passing of your wife Carolyn. I do not think I ever had the pleasure of meeting her. My sincere condolences. Based on her obit she sounds like a wonderful person and am sure you will miss her tremendously. Sincerely, Donald P Dunn
    06/24/2021 06:28 am
    Edward Thompson writes,
    Dear Dr. Giles, I was very sorry to read about the passing of your wife. The loss of a loved one can be unbearable. I hope that you and your family find peace. Your very long time patient........Ed Thompson
    06/24/2021 08:12 am
    Blaise Giroso lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy, Sorry to hear about the loss of your "Queen of Cool. My thoughts are with you and your family. Hang in there.
    06/24/2021 08:37 am
    The Reillys lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Howdy, We are all deeply saddened by Carolyn’s passing. She was indeed the Queen of Cool and her engaging and bright face lit up every room she entered. How lucky your two were to have each other and to share spread that love with all of us. We love Julie and Robin and they will continue their mother’s legacy of making the world a better place. our thoughts and prayers are with you and Carolyn and your entire family.
    06/24/2021 12:44 pm
    Kenny and Sally Stevenson writes,
    Howdy, Sally and I are so sorry to hear the news of Carolyn’s passing. Our thought and prayers are with you and your family
    06/24/2021 06:50 pm
    Rose Marie McMann lit a candle and writes,
    Thinking of you in your time of sorrow. I am a former patient.
    06/24/2021 10:41 pm
    Laurie McArthur writes,
    Dear Howdy and family, I was saddened reading that Carolyn passed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may she rest in peace.
    06/25/2021 04:54 pm
    Bill Greto, Jr. writes,
    Dr. Giles and family, We are so very sorry to learn of the passing of your beloved wife. I'm sure that you take comfort knowing that Arnie met her at the pearly gates and escorted her into eternal life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. May she rest in peace. With deepest sympathy, The Bugsy Greto Family
    06/25/2021 07:22 pm
    Diane Gardner lit a candle and writes,
    The loss of Carolyn is felt deeply by all who know the two of you. She will always be remembered in the wonderful memories your family shares. It is very hard to be the leftee as the hole in your heart remains with your love.The laughs, travels and all the adventures you and the children talk about will always be there. Much Love Gene and Diane
    06/26/2021 03:16 pm
    Beverly Heasley writes,
    It's been more than 30 years since I've seen the Giles family, but I have happy memories of the times. A friend of mine once told me "Some day all we'll have is the memories; so make them good ones." Remember GeB Garb painted skirts? Carolyn and Gail sewing wrap around skirts until we found manufacturers. I designing the decorations, painting the golf, tennis and casual skirts and supervising painters when we got too big to do it all myself. The Giles basement full of finished products ready to ship, Carolyn in charge of that task. Winnie Palmer wearing our skirt in a family portrait that is included in your book, Howdy. So many more events flash across my mind. I'm so grateful to have had Carolyn in my life for such a brief period time. Memories. Happy memories, good ones. I'm sure you have them Howdy. I'm thinking of you and your family and sharing your grief over a life that ended too soon. Bev
    06/28/2021 11:05 am
    Barry and Paula Springer writes,
    Howdy, Paula and I were saddened to hear about Carolyn. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
    06/29/2021 08:46 am
    Sally O'Neal lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Howdy, We know your heart is breaking. She truly was the love of your life. Praying God will comfort you and your family in the sad days ahead. Love, Sally and Jim O'Neal
    07/01/2021 07:34 pm
    Jeff Darnall lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy, Just heard about Caroline's passing (2/2024)..She was the brightest light in "Arnie's Army" for so many years, and of course will always have been your brightest light..Everyone she met loved her, her smile, her laughter, and her total charm and genuine sweetness..I have so many great memories of the two of you as the most friendly and "welcoming" couple I have ever known..Am so very sorry for your loss, and Beth and I will pray for your healing in this process..Your memories with Caroline over so many years must be a great comfort to you, as I am sure they are to Robin and Julie as well..God bless you, my friend..Jeff and Beth
    02/06/2024 07:04 pm

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