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Brian Russ O’Connor

Brian Russ O’Connor, 81, passed away peacefully in his sleep on November 5, 2020. Born in 1939 to Helen Russ and Roderic Comins O’Connor, Brian grew up in Dracut, MA. He graduated from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in 1960 and earned his PhD in Chemistry from the University of Illinois in 1963, where he met his wife, Linda.

Brian worked all over the world for the DuPont Company before settling down to a quiet retirement in Wilmington and Bethany Beach, DE. He loved to play golf and tennis in his younger years, and he enjoyed traveling, music, and the mountain lakes in New England. These passions were only surpassed by his love of his wife of 58 years, Linda. Together they frequented musical performances in Philadelphia and Wilmington and enjoyed playing mixed doubles in tennis for many ears. Brian was a supporter of the arts and indirectly helped many children learn music and opera through his charitable involvement in various performing groups in Wilmington. He traveled to all seven continents and loved to immerse himself in other cultures. His favorite location, especially later in life, was Squam Lake in New Hampshire, where on many summer afternoons he could be found taking a book on a humble dock while the sun set slowly behind the hills.
Brian is survived by his wife Linda Hardy O’Connor, his sister Helen Comins Nothnagle (Geoffrey) of MA, their three children Melissa Nothnagle (TJ), Geoffrey Jr., and David (Martha), and their grandchildren Milo, Elizabeth, Grace, Charles, and Andrew. Brian is also survived by his sister-in-law Ann Hardy Sharp and husband William H. “Sharpy”, Jr. of Wilmington, their children William H. Sharp, III (Carrie) and Kay Brooks (Brett), and great-nieces Kirsten and Julia and great-nephew Evan Sharp.

Memorial contributions can be made in his name to the Choir School of DE, 2013 N. Market St., Wilmington, 19802 or the Music School of DE, 4101 N. Washington St., Wilmington, DE 19802.

Funeral Services

Brian will be put to rest at Christ Church in Wilmington, DE in a private ceremony.

Condolences

    Bill Kester writes,
    An energetic, youthful guy with a great sense of humor who loved to travel to exotic places, Brian O'Connor was one of my bosses about 1986. We "shot the rapids" of the Colorado River together in a rubber raft. Sincere condolences and best wishes to his family at this sad time.
    12/02/2020 03:55 pm
    Mary McCann Graham writes,
    Brian was a generous and thoughtful friend. We became acquainted when his father, a widower and my mother, a widow, were married. When my mother died suddenly, he and his sister were an enormous support. I will miss his humor and compassion greatly. My deepest sympathies to Linda.
    12/05/2020 08:36 pm
    vincent g. witterholt writes,
    Dear Linda, So sorry to read of the passing of Brian. He was a good man and a lot of fun as an office mate in Jackson Laboratory. He generously left me his Org Syn books when he left to pursue the management track. I always appreciated his gesture and gratified to see him do so well in the path chosen. Stay safe. Vince
    12/07/2020 02:21 pm
    Arreon A. Harley-Emerson writes,
    Brian O'Connor was an incredible human. I worked very closely with Brian and learned a great deal from him. What I learned most from was to be "stubborn for cause!" He was a man of convictions and values. His commitment to the Choir School's choristers and their families was clearly evident. He believed that music that the combination of academic support and mentoring could be amplified by the power of music. I will miss his dry sense of humor and world famous potshots. Boy did I learn so much from Brian O'Connor. Requiescat in pace.
    12/07/2020 04:36 pm
    Dana Robertson writes,
    It was a privilege to know Brian and Linda from the Cathedral and the Choir School. Both such exceptional and dedicated people. Brian was passionate and rise meticulous in his work in support of the choir school. He will be greatly missed. May he rest on peace and rise in glory.
    12/08/2020 09:44 am
    Cathy and Bill Ripka writes,
    Dear Linda, Bill and I were just thinking of the two of you today and during our Internet searches became aware of Brian’s passing. We are so sorry. We hope that the good memories are helping you during this loss. I knew you were very interested in music but only now know of the great supporter Brian had been as well. Do hope Ann is a great support for you. Sorry that we have lost contact over the years. Hugs and love, Cathy and Bill Ripka
    03/14/2021 02:04 pm

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