Bob Fenimore came into this world in May of 1936 in Mt. Holly, NJ, the oldest child of Mary and Allen Fenimore. He left the world a better place, because of his 87 years in it, on October 15, 2023, in Hockessin, DE. His wife and partner for 63 adventure-filled years, Edee, was his enthusiastic cheerleader and occasional critic.
Bob did all the usual things of a privileged life. He went to school (Lawrenceville Prep, Yale, MIT), worked a lot (Sun Oil, Atlas Chemical, ICI), married Edee, had kids (daughter Heather, son David), and lived in a couple places (Haddonfield NJ, Wilmington DE, Neavitt MD). His faith and family were his guideposts in all decisions. You know … the usual.
But Bob wasn’t usual. He grew up one way and chose to live his adult life another. He supported Edee in her professional pursuits and participated in parenting and household chores decades before it was commonplace for men to do either. He lived his faith without seeking attention for it. He regularly laughed at himself without being arrogant. He gave his time, talent, and treasure generously with no need for recognition. He didn’t tell people what to do but led by quiet example instead. Bob brought a much appreciated, predictable presence to the table, but he wasn’t usual.
Bob loved sports of all kinds including tennis, skiing, sailing, and ping pong to determine who had to do the dinner dishes. He equally enjoyed watching men’s, women’s, high school, college and professional teams and players. He did not love watching a Philly team lose.
Music played a significant and meaningful role in Bob’s life. He made many a joyful noise, always with gusto! He sang and played the saxophone, clarinet and piano in community groups, church, the car, and the shower. However, his most impressive performance was his annual birthday serenade to loved ones, even better when Edee joined him on her nose flute. Unforgettable!
Bob was adored by so many. Family by birth and marriage includes Edee; Heather; David and Lynne; Peggy and Bob; Bruce and Jamie; five grands and their partners; and six greats. Family by life and experience is too numerous to name but nonetheless cherished.
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