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Bettina L. Jenney

Bettina Lindsay Jenney, a retired breeder of thoroughbred racehorses, died peacefully at home at Stonegates in Greenville, Delaware on December 22, 2019, from cancer. She was 86 years old.

Born in Bedford Hills, NY, Bettina grew up in Lake Forest, Illinois, graduated from Garrison Forest School and attended Smith College. After Smith, Bettina moved to New York City working for Time Inc. She then married Josiah Marvel Scott (Jay), from Wilmington, Delaware, and lived in Wilmington where they raised their two daughters.

After Jay died, Bettina married Marshall Jenney and moved to Derry Meeting Farm in Cochranville, Pennsylvania. Derry Meeting Farm bred the influential sire Danzig, English and Irish champion Mrs. Penny, and millionaire winner Yankee Affair. After Marshall died, Bettina managed the farm, and bred the talented racehorse Mrs. Lindsay (named after her mother), winner of top races in France and Canada.

She is survived by her sister, Seton Lindsay O’Reilly of Litchfield, Connecticut, daughters Lindsay Scott of Wilmington, Delaware and Sally Scott of Baltimore, Maryland, four grandchildren, and one great-grandchild, as well as her stepdaughters Annie Jenney Darrow of Baltimore, Maryland, and Laura Jenney Roe of Bozeman, Montana and their five children. Our family is so grateful for all the caregivers that helped Bettina, especially over this past year.

A memorial service will be held at Christ Church Christiana Hundred, 505 E. Buck Road, Greenville, Delaware on Thursday January 9, 2020 at 11 am.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Newfound Lake Region Association, 10 North Main Street, Unit 1, Bristol, NH 03222. Being at her family’s house on Newfound Lake was the highlight of Bettina’s year.

 

 

Funeral Services

A memorial service will be held at Christ Church Christiana Hundred, Wilmington, Delaware on January 9, 2020 at 11am.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Newfound Lake Region Association, 10 North Main Street, Unit 1, Bristol, NH 03222. Being at her family’s house on Newfound Lake was the highlight of Bettina’s year.

Condolences

    Jim Bergen lit a candle and writes,
    A Very Nice Lady, who will be deeply missed by those that knew her.
    12/27/2019 12:13 pm
    Donna Gonzalez lit a candle
    12/27/2019 02:53 pm
    Freda Dixon lit a candle and writes,
    My condolences to the family! A pleasure working with and meeting Mrs Jenney
    12/27/2019 03:44 pm
    Kimberly D Carson writes,
    My condolence to the family.
    12/27/2019 03:46 pm
    Trina Howard lit a candle and writes,
    My heart goes out to you, precious Lindsay and Sally. Your dear mother was a special lady and I shared many good times and thoughts with her. Sadly we lost touch over the years. A person is never so immediate as when they leave us. Often, you think of asking them a question or visiting and they are not near. Grief is a process that only time heals. Love to you wonderful young women . I only wish I could see you more often. So much love I send to you both. Always, Trinx😘🙏🙏🙏❌⭕️🌈
    12/27/2019 08:55 pm
    Holly Atkinson Bernhard writes,
    My deepest sympathy to the family. I know Dragonfly is waiting for her Lindsey along with many other great horses. Prayers to you and your family I am so sorry.
    12/27/2019 11:43 pm
    susanna dent lit a candle and writes,
    Bettina was a wonderful woman and I have many wonderful memories of her. I am so sad to hear of her passing.
    12/28/2019 02:04 am
    Anne hamilton lit a candle and writes,
    Just a lovely woman...I’ll always smile thinking of her...she loved her family and friends unconditionally...a huge loss to so many... prayers to the Girls and their families ....🙏🏻💙
    12/28/2019 07:57 am
    Kay Griffin lit a candle and writes,
    Although I never met Betinna, I am friends with her awesome daughter, Lindsay. From reading the obituary, I can tell that Lindsay has many of the same qualities of those of her Mom. Thinking of the whole family. Kay Griffin
    12/28/2019 09:47 am
    Kelly shenk lit a candle
    12/28/2019 11:42 am
    Rosie Goodyear lit a candle and writes,
    There will always be a special place in my heart for this wonderful, kind and generous lady.
    12/28/2019 03:53 pm
    Linda Davidson lit a candle and writes,
    What a kind and caring lady. So sorry for your loss.
    12/30/2019 07:55 am
    Moira Walker writes,
    Sally and Lindsay, words can not express how sad I am to hear of your lovely mother's passing. I have such fond memories of growing up with you both and your mother being so kind. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that she is with you always. Love to you both. Moira
    12/30/2019 09:07 am
    Priscilla Dugdale writes,
    Lindsay and family, God bless one and all..... Much love, Priscilla
    12/30/2019 11:14 am
    Lynn Ohrstrom Brooks lit a candle and writes,
    I remember Mrs. Jenney's warmth and love of her daughter, and my friend, Lindsay. I also remember her love of Garrison Forest School. I am so sorry for her passing and hope that Lindsay, and all of her loved ones will be comforted by their happy memories with Mrs. Jenney. In love, Lynn
    12/30/2019 01:38 pm
    Beth Secor lit a candle and writes,
    Bettina!!!What a very special kind..fun...Lady ,in a class of her own with the biggest heart and so much Grace & Wisdom ! Bettina loved her family and Lindsey & Sally are a chip off that lovely block!
    01/03/2020 02:29 pm
    Eileen (Clancy) Rembecki lit a candle and writes,
    Mrs. Jenney had a heart of gold. She must have saved hundreds of kittens that were dropped off or that she found wandering in need of medical attention and a home. What lucky cats they were - they had a great life on the farm. My mother and sister found themselves without a place to live back in the late 70s early 80s, because promises made were not kept. Bettina Jenney made it possible for my mom to live out her days in a beautiful little renovated carriage house on Derry Meeting Farm. She took time out of her busy life on a regular basis, to have tea with "Nora"and found ways to make her feel wanted and needed. Bettina was a kind and generous lady. She's probably busy rounding up all the cats in heaven making sure they have their shots! I have good memories of visiting my mom & sister during that time. My condolences to the family.
    01/06/2020 08:20 pm
    George Karney writes,
    Enjoyed our visits. You are a grand lady! Rest In Peace
    01/09/2020 11:38 am

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