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Adele Akehurst

Adele Margaret Shilko Akehurst passed away peacefully on December 7th, 2023 holding her husband’s hand.

She is survived by her husband Ed Akehurst, siblings Sarah Shilko-Mohr and Martin Shilko, step-children David Akehurst and Helen Akehurst, and step-grandchildren Jami, Sofia, and Kaitlyn.

Adele loved horses and graduated from Averett College with a degree in Equestrian Studies. She had the pleasure of working at some of the most respected horse breeders in the country, and with the United States Equestrian Team.

She also loved martial arts. She earned a blackbelt in Kenpo Karate, and held belts in Tien Shan Pai Kung Fu and Tai Kwan Do. She had a talent for teaching Kenpo to children.

Her ongoing passions were hiking, fine dining, and live music. She spent many years traveling extensively and frequently in pursuit of those activities.

She possessed overwhelming kindness, had a unique, dry sense of humor that was greatly appreciated by those that were sharp enough to catch it, and was an avid reader with profound knowledge across many subject matters.

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Funeral Services

Adele requested no services be held. Instead, there will be a Celebration of Life in the Springtime.

Condolences

    Julie komes lit a candle and writes,
    Sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family
    12/11/2023 02:52 pm
    Russ Redhead lit a candle and writes,
    Adele, you had such a kind soul and a warm and inviting smile. This world will hurt without you being a part of it anymore. We will miss you so much🥺
    12/11/2023 03:04 pm
    Buddy Paxton and Family lit a candle and writes,
    I am very sorry for your loss, i feel your pain. Just know that the pain will lessen, and the memories will remain forever. Take care and God bless.
    12/11/2023 03:18 pm
    Susan Jasper Murphy lit a candle and writes,
    My love to Ed and all of Adele's family. She was a lovely person with a big heart. I enjoyed my time spent with Adele at musical events or just getting together when either of us passed through each other's town. Her loss breaks my heart and I am so sorry for all that grieve her.
    12/11/2023 04:00 pm
    Prashant Parikh lit a candle and writes,
    Om! I met Adele ji only once, but she was so kind and considerate. This was in 2015 when I believe we last met Pujya Swamiji. There were many students who wished to see Swamiji one last time, Ed-ji and Adele-ji did too. So when it was my turn to see him and I asked you two to come along. However, Adele ji mentioned she would like Swamiji to have his rest and not trouble him. How thoughtful :) Over the years I followed you two on FB, and the lovely destinations (and concerts) you've been to, and of course the lovely family photos - grandkids and all. Such a full life which only makes the loss felt more. My heartfelt condolences to your family _/\_ Om Shanti!
    12/11/2023 04:07 pm
    Lisa Marie Temple lit a candle and writes,
    Ed & family, I am so sorry for your loss. Always remember the good times & keep the memories alive. May God bless you & we shall all meet again at the great gig in the sky!
    12/11/2023 04:28 pm
    Sophie Wright writes,
    I'm going to miss you, Adele. Rest easy, pain free. Til we meet again. ❤️
    12/11/2023 04:34 pm
    Anne Marie Roberts lit a candle and writes,
    I'm truly sorry for your loss. Please know you're in my thoughts during this difficult time
    12/11/2023 05:09 pm
    Andrea Sparks writes,
    Ed, I’m sure no words can possibly make you feel better at this time. Remember all the great times and all the adventures you had together. She was an amazing lady. Mike and I are so sorry! Prayers to you and your family. Don’t hesitate to reach out to us, if you need someone to talk to. We are a phone call away! 🙏😥😘
    12/11/2023 06:16 pm
    Pat Flanagan lit a candle and writes,
    Our love and condolences to Ed and family. Though I only met Adele once, and it was brief, I could immediately feel she was a warm and funny person. Her presence was definitely bright and I could tell that she and Ed were deeply connected. All of you, and Adele, are in our thoughts.
    12/11/2023 06:41 pm
    Kim Grubb lit a candle and writes,
    Ed, Sarah and all family, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you all.
    12/11/2023 09:15 pm
    Todd Fleischmann writes,
    Always enjoyed getting together with Ed and Adele and was so sad to learn of her medical issues. I prayed for her to have the strength to endure the process but respected her for her decision. Her leaving us is a great impact to Ed, her families and friends, but I know she doesn't want us to be sad. Still, I will miss seeing her and enjoying her presence and personality.
    12/11/2023 10:53 pm
    Bobby
    12/12/2023 06:49 pm
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    12/12/2023 07:22 pm
    Heidi Cordero writes,
    My condolences to Ed and the entire extended family. Adele was a very sweet person. I enjoyed getting to know her at the Gaz’s family gatherings at the bay. I know she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
    12/13/2023 06:02 pm
    Christopher Lowensen lit a candle and writes,
    Dee and I are so very sorry for your loss. Adele was a sweetheart, funny and warm. Our prayers go out to you Ed and the family during this time of grief. May your hearts keep Adele alive with the wonderful memories you created.
    12/16/2023 08:58 pm
    Sarah L Pratt writes,
    I cannot even imagine what you are going through. Sending condolences for the loss of such a vibrant woman! As I read this obituary I can feel the love that you all shared and am In tears for your sadness. Prayers for peace & healing to you & all who loved Adele. My deepest sympathies sent to you My friend.
    12/18/2023 04:02 pm
    Laird Goulding lit a candle and writes,
    Adele was a spirited and wonderful friend for many years. Lots of those years have been through interesting correspondence since there have been 1000 miles between us for nearly 20 recent years. Adele has always had a clever wit and an insatiable curiosity about so many things especially travel. We will all miss sharing some smiles with her. Here's wishing Ed the deepest sympathy for your loss and please remember to recall and celebrate the best of times with Adele.
    12/19/2023 03:15 pm
    Swaminiji writes,
    Namaste dear Ed. Thinking of you and sending prayers at this difficult time. All one can do is to miss Adele. In her own quiet way, she was an inspiration to all in the kind and thoughtful way in which she conducted herself. Ed, you would often say that even though you were actively pursuing Vedanta, Adele effortlessly lived it in the everyday life. It is a great blessing to remember Adele as a natural advaitin. May she gain sadgati with the Lord’s grace. Om
    12/21/2023 04:57 am
    Tammy Haney lit a candle and writes,
    Ed and family, I am so very sorry for your loss...
    12/22/2023 12:15 am
    Deb Pep lit a candle and writes,
    Ed, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Although I never had the privilege of knowing Adele personally, it's clear she was a remarkable woman with a beautiful soul. Her passions and achievements, her kindness and humor, all speak of a life well-lived and deeply cherished. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in your memories and the love that surrounds you.
    01/12/2024 02:09 pm

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