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David Bulluck Brown

David Bulluck Brown of Wilmington, Delaware, son of Werner and Bucie Brown, died peacefully in his home on January 22, 2024, at the age of 77. Born in Wilmington, Delaware, in 1946, he attended A.I. du Pont High School where he was a basketball and track star. He attended the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he became a member of the Phi Kappa Sigma fraternity and graduated with Honors and Phi Beta Kappa in 1968. After his college graduation, he served in active duty in the United States Army Reserves. David’s high school friendships had led to meeting the love of his life, Gweneth Blacklock Brown, from Sharptown, New Jersey, and they married in 1969.

David attended the Law School at the University of Virginia, where Gwen also obtained her doctorate in education and child development. At UVA, David received many honors, including serving on the Managing Board of the Law Review, Order of the Coif, Lichnos Society, and the Lawyer’s Title Award, and he also volunteered as a mentor and tutor for students from underrepresented backgrounds. Upon graduation, he joined the Washington, DC firm, Covington & Burling, where he worked for seven years before returning to Wilmington to be closer to family and to join Potter Anderson & Corroon (now Potter Anderson). At Potter, David became a partner in 1981, served on the Executive Committee for more than 15 years, including as its Chair for a final 3 years, and remained Of Counsel until 2020.

David was strongly committed to issues of social justice, and, in addition to his paid work, he spent thousands of hours volunteering for related causes, with a particular focus on countering poverty, racism, and sexism. He co-founded Delaware Volunteer Legal Services and served as Board Chair and a Board Member for many years. Additionally, he served on the boards of the following nonprofit organizations: Washington Council of Lawyers (Executive Committee), Neighborhood Legal Services Program (DC), Delaware Theater Company (Executive Committee and Secretary), Downtown Wilmington Improvement Corp., Delaware Hospice, The Music School of Delaware, and Planned Parenthood of Delaware (Board Chair and member for 20 years). As a Board Member of the Delaware Historical Society, he championed the founding of The Mitchell Center for African American Heritage.

Further nonprofit committee memberships included the Combined Campaign for Justice (Campaign Chair), Delaware Supreme Court Rules Advisory Committee, Governor’s Re: Learning Partnership (Statewide Task Force on Education), Governor’s International Trade Counsel, and several committees and sections for the Delaware State Bar Association, and for UVA. His pro bono activities included Delaware Volunteer Legal Services, Neighborhood Legal Services Program (DC), Interracial Council for Business Opportunities of Greater Washington (DC), Presidential Clemency Board (DC), and ACLU (DC). A proud Democrat, David’s volunteer political positions included Legal Counsel for State of Delaware Clinton Presidential Campaign (1992), Legal Counsel for State of Delaware National Lawyers Council (DNC), and several finance committees including Joe Biden for Senate and Tom Carper for Governor.

David’s service to his fellow humans and to the community was widely recognized, including by the: Governor’s Volunteer of the Year Award; Delaware Bar Association’s Christopher W. White Distinguished Access to Justice Award, Distinguished Service Award, and Long Term Service Award; Planned Parenthood of Delaware’s Sonia Schorr Sloan Service Award; United Way of Delaware’s Alexis de Tocqueville Award; the ACLU of Delaware’s Gerald E. Kandler Award; Delaware Volunteer Legal Services’ Founder’s Award; and the Potter Anderson & Corroon Pro Bono Award.

David additionally supported Gwen in her social justice work, including participating in listening circles through Re-evaluation Counseling, and the United to End Racism and No Limits for Women projects. One of his greatest skills was his ability to listen, which allowed him to connect deeply and form many lasting friendships. He had a huge heart and immeasurable energy for helping his family and friends.

In his young adulthood, David enjoyed playing guitar and singing with friends, and, in more recent years, he often could be seen with his buddies on the golf course, carrying his clubs and walking nine or eighteen holes in all kinds of weather. David, Gwen, their daughter Ellie, and grandchildren Max and River loved riding their horses in New Jersey where Gwen grew up. David’s love of music was passed along to his grandchildren, and their family enjoyed traveling together to bluegrass and classical music festivals where Max and River would be performing on fiddle or violin. David’s other favorite pastime was fishing, particularly with his siblings, and there was no place better for that than near his grandmother’s cottage at Johnnie Mercer’s Pier in Wrightsville Beach, North Carolina, where the Brown family kept up a tradition of summer vacations together, with a crowd eventually exceeding 50 family members, many of whom also gathered together at David and Gwen’s house for Christmases. Family mattered most of all to David, and he brought love, integrity, and humor to every family gathering.

He was predeceased by his older brother, Curt, a first lieutenant in the United States Army Infantry, who died in combat in Vietnam in 1968, by his mother, Bucie, in 1986, by his father, Werner, in 2015, and by his sister, Peggie Torelli (Joe), in 2018.

David is survived by his wife Gwen, and their family: Ellie, Hannah, Tim, Francis, Sophie, Max, and River. He also is survived by his siblings Steve (Kathleen), Matt (Beth), Alice Barger (Gene), and Richard (Claudia), and by his and Gwen’s many nieces and nephews, and their partners and children.

David’s family sends heartfelt thanks for the superb care he received from the doctors, nurses, and medical staff at Christiana Hospital, especially Dr. Scott Hall, and at the Hospital of the University of Pennsylvania, especially Dr. Ximena Jordan Bruno and Dr. Ryan McAuley. Thanks also for support from Bayada Home Health Care and Delaware Hospice.

A memorial service will be held at Lower Brandywine Presbyterian Church, 101 Old Kennett Road, Greenville, DE at 11 AM on Friday, February 2, 2024 followed by a 12 PM reception at Wilmington Country Club, 4825 Kennett Pike, Greenville, DE. In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions to The Southern Poverty Law Center, 400 Washington Avenue, Montgomery, AL 36104, https://www.splcenter.org/, Delaware Nature Society, P.O. Box 700, Hockessin, DE 19707, https://www.delawarenaturesociety.org/, or the Chesapeake Bay Foundation, 114 S. Washington St. #103, Easton, MD 21601, https://www.cbf.org/

Funeral Services

A memorial service will be held at Lower Brandywine Presbyterian Church, 101 Old Kennett Road, Greenville, DE at 11 AM on Friday, February 2, 2024 followed by a 12 PM reception at Wilmington Country Club, 4825 Kennett Pike, Greenville, DE.

The live stream link is below:https://showorksav.com/livestream/

 

 

Condolences

    J. David Castle lit a candle and writes,
    David, what a remarkable life you led and how much joy you have brought to so many people! Your example in helping so many charitable organizations as well as your Law School alma mater at the University of Virginia continue to be a real inspiration. Memories of you will certainly live on here in Charlottesville. We will truly miss you at the 60th reunion of our high school class. I send my sincerest condolences to Gwen and the rest of your family. May you rest in peace.
    01/26/2024 08:52 pm
    John C Goodwin writes,
    When a teammate fouls out of the game of life one quickly realizes that the game is just not the same. David left a legacy that will be applauded by everyone that he touched. His life reflected his family's values and integrity. It is a standard that should be celebrated eternally. John Goodwin
    01/27/2024 06:08 am
    David Cress lit a candle and writes,
    I extend my deepest condolences to Gwen, and the entire Brown family. David was so very loved.
    01/27/2024 08:22 am
    Rick Marsh lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences are being sent to you, Gwen, and the entire Brown family. I cherish our time growing up in Deerhurst both in brick Deerhurst and middle Deerhurst. David was quite a guy and went far. May God bless you and hold you in his arms. Rick Marsh and the entire Marsh Family
    01/27/2024 10:31 am
    Sherry and Bo Childs writes,
    Sending our heartfelt love and prayers to Gwen and all of the Brown families. We know David will be missed terribly and pray that his memory will live in the hearts of all those he touched for ever.
    01/27/2024 11:30 am
    Anne Easterly lit a candle and writes,
    My goodness, David was a remarkably brilliant, accomplished and generous man. While I never met him, I can see why he was brother Steve’s best friend. Our world needs more like him. He will be missed and remembered. Love to the family, Anne Easterly
    01/27/2024 11:56 am
    Sharon & Frank Baker lit a candle and writes,
    Truly, one of the good guys in this world. Your kindness will be sorely missed. Hope you are flying!
    01/27/2024 01:02 pm
    Tarrell Davis lit a candle and writes,
    Your father led an amazing life and gave so much of himself to many. I would’ve loved to have had a conversation with him, but so very appreciative of his contributions to this world. I know you were so very proud of him all the time.
    01/27/2024 01:21 pm
    Terri D'Amato lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Gwen. Ellie, and family: I am keeping you all in my prayers for peace and support. I remember David was one of the 1st RCers to welcome me with a hug to my 1st workshop at Appel Farm. He was such a warm wonderful man. May God bless him and you always. Love, Terri D'Amato
    01/27/2024 09:35 pm
    Steve Keating lit a candle and writes,
    It was always such a great joy for me when Dave would attend our Thursday night meeting. He was such a pleasure to be around. He would always have a great story to share. Dave would add so much to the conversation no matter what the topic. He was such a kind-hearted gentleman. I will miss him so very much.
    01/27/2024 10:16 pm
    Steven Painter writes,
    Gwen and family, I was shocked and saddened to learn of Dave's passing. My deepest condolences, I'm sure he will be deeply missed as everything he was associated with thrived and benefited from his good nature and good will. I enjoyed our conversations while working on your house. An extremely down to earth , intelligent, thoughtful man.
    01/28/2024 09:49 am
    John Werner Bulluck writes,
    David was such a wonderful man. My condolences to all his family. He was deeply loved by all his cousins and made a lasting positive impression on all our lives. My best memories were walking Wrightsville Beach alone with him and discussing the paths of our lives.
    01/28/2024 10:17 am
    Edward Pankowski lit a candle and writes,
    David and I passed the bar exam together in the same year and I worked on several his committees. I remember Gwen from the University of Delaware. David and Gwen sold me my house on Gilpin Avenue in 1993. RIP David you are a good man ❤️
    01/28/2024 10:27 am
    Edward Pankowski lit a candle and writes,
    May God bless and watch over you Gwen….RIP David ❤️
    01/28/2024 11:14 am
    Jack Markell writes,
    Dave was one of the great civic leaders of our time. He made Delaware a much better place. My deepest condolences to Gwen and the entire family.
    01/28/2024 12:07 pm
    Robert Faust lit a candle and writes,
    David “Dave” was my best friend and lived across the street . I grew up with him as a young kid and we started school together and had many experiences in a very different time. Roaming around the woods and riding bikes playing army and many things kids did in those days. He moved away from Deerhurst and we went different ways had very different lives . I moved west and met him again when he attended my father’s funeral. Dave was my only friend and I had no brothers and I would hang out at Dave’s house with him and his brothers. Much respect old friend!
    01/28/2024 02:25 pm
    Sylvia Lewis-Harris & Family lit a candle and writes,
    David, You were such a great friend to me and my young men D’Angelo & Michael. You could really see people for who they were and the world will never be the same without you in it. You made Delaware a better, safer and more just place to be. The Lord is pleased I will continue to love you, Gwen, Ellie, Hannah, Max and River forever! Catch this kiss in heaven my friend! Love always 🙏🏽🥰
    01/28/2024 03:30 pm
    Patricia Dailey Lewis lit a candle and writes,
    Your Husband and Father, Brother and friend touched more people than you could know. David's commitment to public service was an amazing testament to his life of giving. His integrity and heart left a strong impression on me for the many years I knew him, particularly about what lawyers could and should do. His loss is a great tragedy. His life was a statement of love and commitment, and did so much for so many. So very grateful for the opportunity to know him and learn from his example.
    01/28/2024 03:40 pm
    F. Scott Moyer writes,
    Dear Brown Family, As you know, my memories of David and the entire Brown family go back to the town of Deerhurst and from birth in Wilmington. Our families were already fully connected with Werner and my Dad, Bob Moyer, being best friends from their days at Duke University. I can't tell you how many times I spent at the Brown's home playing basketball or down at Ward Park playing baseball games with all the Moyer kids and Brown kids combined. The memories of those days are still a highlight in my mind these many years later. Then, when they moved to their beautiful home in Greenville Pa., I would visit many times and stay over night frequently enjoying having the run of the extensive property. All of the Browns were exceptionally talented in sports and in all of their High School activities. Our travels to New Jersey and to the Far East kept us apart at times but we always found a way to reconnect in North Carolina or other places throughout our busy schedules. Meanwhile, David was continuing his higher education with his sights set on being a lawyer. I remember him introducing me to the love of his life, Gwen when they had just been together. She was the perfect match for David....someone who would be his other half and support his vision moving forward. David's accomplishments are extraordinary and enormously generous of his time and his kind levels of "giving-ness." Over recent times, I have had many extended phone calls with David all of which were filled with mutual support and appreciation for one another as we discussed our dreams and visions of preferred things to accomplish in our lifetimes. Now, with his cut short, I am deeply saddened that those goals he projected will not be reached. Nonetheless, his successes have stood the test of time and with Ellie, Max, River, Gwen, all of his brilliant professional & highly dedicated work and the extended Brown family, he is leaving a legacy with us. He set the Bar [no pun intended] extremely high for us to reach....and he has set it by example. He and Gwen have left us with the extraordinary brilliance of his daughter and her talented children who are pursuing their individual talents in music, sports and many other skilled fields. They have been blessed with the Brown Family's skill sets of which we are all the beneficiaries. Like all of you, I will miss the warm, sweet-hearted, loving soul & spirit of David in constructive conversations filled with his great insights and humor and his enigmatic presence in our lives. The Brown Family and the Moyer Family are as close as families will get in a lifetime. My heart goes out to all of you in this time of loss and grieving. Please know that I am thinking of you and all of my memories of your loving Father, brother, Grandfather, husband, Uncle and friend, David, at this time. With Love and Comfort, Scott
    01/28/2024 05:09 pm
    Bobbie Clements Heller lit a candle and writes,
    What David Brown’s life and legacy leaves with me is the gift of having the privilege to experience watching the combination of the softest and sweetest soul wrapped up in a tiger force of strength to bring about goodness and fairness for all. It doesn’t get much better than that. I am especially sending much affection to all of you Browns and to those closest to his heart which would be anyone who knew him. Thinking of you Gwen and family as I send love across the miles. XO Bobbie Clements Heller
    01/28/2024 09:37 pm
    Angela Fowlkes lit a candle and writes,
    Rest Peacefully, Mr. Brown. You were a champion to the unseen and the unheard. You will be missed. My sincere condolences to the family.
    01/29/2024 10:52 am
    Berma J. Scott writes,
    This Wonderful man will be surely missed. He always made me smile. I will miss those wonderful hugs he always gave me. when I saw him. To the family, I enclosed a song I loved which has always helped me get through trying times. GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU Be not dismayed whate’er betide, God will take care of you; Beneath His wings of love abide, God will take care of you. Refrain: God will take care of you, Through every day, o’er all the way; He will take care of you, God will take care of you. Through days of toil when heart doth fail, God will take care of you; When dangers fierce your path assail, God will take care of you. Refrain: God will take care of you, Through every day, o’er all the way; He will take care of you, God will take care of you. All you may need He will provide, God will take care of you; Nothing you ask will be denied, God will take care of you. Refrain: God will take care of you, Through every day, o’er all the way; He will take care of you, God will take care of you. No matter what may be the test, God will take care of you; Lean, weary one, upon His breast, God will take care of you. Refrain: God will take care of you, Through every day, o’er all the way; He will take care of you, God will take care of you You have my deepest sympathy, Peace and Blessing, Berma
    01/29/2024 10:55 am
    fr joe mcmahon writes,
    The best greetings to all in memory of a truly great man!
    01/29/2024 11:34 am
    Stephen Drake writes,
    Dear Gwen, Ellie and family. I was saddened to hear of David's passing. I have warm memories of him that I hold dear. I'm comforted by the thought that the love and support that you've given to the community over the years will be there for you in your time of need.
    01/29/2024 05:47 pm
    Janice Fontello lit a candle and writes,
    David, I will always remember and be grateful for that day 43 years ago when you joined the firm and I was assigned to assist you. And I’ll never forget how quickly we became friends and how that friendship grew and continued for decades even long after we had both left the firm. You were always (and will continue to be) such an inspiration to me and to everyone who was fortunate enough to have known you David. And you always had my back, just as I always had yours. Your name, my dear friend, was a household word in my entire family. I am still a bit in shock that you are gone from this earth but am seeking solace knowing I now have another guardian angel and that you are resting in peace. Your loss is a deep one and I will never forget you. My sincere, deepest condolences to Gwen, Ellie, Max and River and to the entire family. Hugs to all of you. … Janice Fontello
    01/29/2024 08:20 pm
    Daniel Atkins lit a candle and writes,
    David was a champion for equal access to justice. He was dignified, curious, and brilliant. When I became a new executive director at one of Delaware's legal aid agencies, David welcomed me so warmly. He remained supportive throughout my tenure, and I will miss seeing him at our events, and talking with him about our shared commitment to using the law to help marginalized people.
    01/30/2024 11:51 am
    Brian F Reeve-Hayes lit a candle and writes,
    Our deepest sympathy for you all at this most difficult time. We are sending love and light from England, keeping you all in our thoughts. David's warmth, love and sage words of wisdom and guidance will be forever in our hearts. With love from the Reeve-Hayes and Reeve families.
    01/30/2024 02:43 pm
    Matt Takeyasu lit a candle and writes,
    It has been over 20 years, but I remember well the days I spent in Wilmington where Brown-san lived. His hospitality and kindness to my wife Mami and I, and the word gentleman fits him so well. He has been a great influence in my life. I will always respect Brown-san. May he rest in peace.
    01/30/2024 11:30 pm
    Joan Beard writes,
    Dear Gwen, Matt, Alice and families, We were so saddened to hear of David's passing. What an amazing person, the community has lost a tremendous voice and advocate for so many important causes. Sam and I send our condolences. With great sympathy, Joan (Tigani) Beard
    01/31/2024 09:34 am
    Diana Moyer Lincoln writes,
    Dear Gwen, Ellie, Steve and all the Brown family, My words can hardly express the sadness I feel after David was diagnosed and then lost his hard fought battle with leukemia. David was such a sweet, gentle and caring person. My brother, Scott, has written all my thoughts in his condolences, and is far more eloquent than I. The Browns and Moyers all grew up together in Deerhurst outside Wilmington, Delaware, until David, Steve, Scott and I were all around 10/11 years old. We were always outside playing — cowboys and Indians, football, baseball, basketball, and what I call “hit the bat” out in the street. (I can only remember one car’s windshield getting smashed.) Our families were always partying together. Our friendship has continued to this day. David and Steve came to my mother’s 99th birthday. Richard and Alice came to my parents’ memorial service. Scott and I visited all the Browns during a reunion at Wrightsville Beach. So many wonderful memories. When I needed someone to go to bat for me with an issue I was having with my dad’s benefit plan with DuPont, David tactfully intervened on my behalf and straightened it all out. (DuPont was one of his clients!) That actually happened 7 years ago today! I believe in Angels. I believe David was one of those Angels and will now be looking down on his family and friends with love, as he joins Werner, Bucie, and Curt. My heart is with Gwen and all the Browns during this most difficult time.
    01/31/2024 10:37 am
    Lisa Lessner writes,
    My deepest condolences to David's family. What a beautiful tribute to a kind and dedicated man. I knew David through his deep commitment and connection to the Combined Campaign for Justice. He was an early campaign chair in the early days of the Campaign. He continued to come to CCJ events (which is how I met him) and supported access to civil justice in Delaware. May David's memory be for a blessing to all who knew him.
    01/31/2024 04:44 pm
    Sam Cupp lit a candle and writes,
    Dave will be missed by the A.I. class of ‘63. He was our go to guy for his class (’64), always cheerfully pitching in. His professional and humanitarian record speaks for itself, yet I was always appreciative that he never took himself too seriously with us. He had a talent for listening and including everyone in the conversation. A great and humble person that I was fortunate enough to have known.
    01/31/2024 10:39 pm
    Robert Harra writes,
    Dear Gwen, David will always be one of the good guys! Actually, great guys! I owe him a lot for his friendship and steadfast support to me during a ten year period of trouble and anxiety in my life. At the low points during this period, he would send me a hand-written note reminding me of his friendship. I welcomed his every word during my period of adversity. We hope it is of some comfort to you to know of the number of lives he touched and helped. God bless David and you. Robert Harra, Jr.
    02/01/2024 03:14 pm
    Stevie Grassetti lit a candle and writes,
    Ellie, I am so sorry for your loss. May your dad's light continue to shine through you. Thinking of you, Hannah, Max, and River. Wishing you all comfort and peace.
    02/01/2024 08:38 pm
    Dana McCloskey lit a candle and writes,
    I didn’t know David, but felt compelled to share my condolences. I was headed home this morning and saw a large crowd parking and gathering at Lower Presbyterian Church. I thought wow that’s a lot of people. It must be a funeral and they must have been special - I wonder who they were? I was able to find the obituary and the first thing I noticed was David’s kind eyes, and that he shared a death anniversary with my younger sister. I continued on to read about his extraordinary life and the impact he must have had on so many, evidenced by all those showing up to say goodbye today. My heartfelt condolences to the Brown family, may you be comforted by the support of family and friends and the love and memories you’ll have forever. I will remember your family next year on January 22nd.
    02/02/2024 11:18 am
    Jane Richards writes,
    For Gwen, David’s wife ………and Family I have been friends with Kathleen (college ) and Steve for over 50 years. I met many extended members ( Richard, David, Matt, Werner ( tennis), etc, over the decades in different venues , with Lindsey being my God- Daughter . I am grateful the family wrote such a long legacy for David’s remarkable goals, accomplishments and unending LOVE ❤️ For his family and life. It will inspire others to evaluate what is possible for them🙏 I offer the poem(s) below for Gwen, who’s both grief and joy I understand “ all too well.” “David a heart of solid gold” He gave you wonderful memories only your heart can hold. He’s the man you loved And you were proud to be his wife. And every day forward, in some small way, You will celebrate his “ Life.” David……”Gone……..but Not Forgotten” “God saw you getting tired a cure was not to be, He wrapped you in his loving arms And whispered “ Come with me.” You suffered much in silence your spirit did not bend You faced your pain with courage Until the very end. You tried so hard to stay with me but your fight was not in vain, God took you to his loving home and freed you from the pain. Until we meet again…..Your loving wife, Gwen Prayers for your grieving hearts and hope for “ Eternal Memories of Love “ Jane Richards, Family Friend
    02/02/2024 02:47 pm
    Mary Lu Currin Pamm & Roland Pamm lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Gwen and family, We are deeply heartbroken to learn of David’s recent passing. He was such a kind, humble and thoughtful gentleman, truly one of a kind. We both enjoyed playing golf with him and getting to know him better. Mary Lu particularly enjoyed sharing memories of our fathers as friends. Roland will always fondly remember our twosome golfing adventures. We are all better people for having had the pleasure of knowing David. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. With love and sympathy, Mary Lu Currin Pamm and Roland Pamm
    02/04/2024 09:21 pm

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