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Lucas Sterling VanDyke

Lucas Sterling VanDyke, age 5 Months, of Elkton, Maryland passed away on Wednesday, May 31, 2023 at the Nemours Children’s Hospital in Wilmington, Delaware.

Lucas was born in Newark, Delaware, the son of Jonathan VanDyke and Kira Beam VanDyke. He was the love of their lives and was called too soon from this world.

He is survived by his grandparents; Donna and Tim VanDyke, of Elkton, Maryland, and Thomas and Tabatha Beam, of Middletown, Delaware, his aunts and uncles; David VanDyke (Katherine), Andrew VanDyke (Christina), Thomas Beam, Tyler Beam (Emily), Trent Beam, Takoda Beam, Kayla Beam and Kassidy Beam, and his cousins, Aidan VanDyke and Elliana Beam.

Lucas is predeceased by Kenneth Ball, Trisha Miller and Raymond Strano.

Funeral Services

A Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, June 7, 2023 at 6:00 PM at the Word of Life Christian Center, 854 S. Old Baltimore Pike, Newark, Delaware 19702. A Visitation will be held prior to the service beginning at 5:00 PM. Interment will be private.

Condolences

    Mackenzie Atkinson lit a candle and writes,
    Kira, I’m so sorry to hear about Lucas passing. I hope he is up singing with the angels and looking down on you both. Sending love and prayers your way as you go through this difficult time 🩵
    06/05/2023 03:00 pm
    Joetta Ball lit a candle and writes,
    Another Angel in Heaven Loved forever and Never forgotten Love Aunt Joetta
    06/05/2023 03:02 pm
    Lucy Dunn writes,
    This is the most difficult message that I have evert written. Because of my illness I will not meet you until Heaven my love! You are the only one of my (#8) of 9 grandchildren that this is true. I never even got to see but a picture. One day that will change!. Now you can spend time with your Aunt Trisha. God will let you know how much I love you. All my love to Kira and Jon I really know how they feel. Grammy
    06/05/2023 03:24 pm
    Sandi-Jeff Van Dyke writes,
    Jeff and I send our love prayers and hugs it to Kira and Jon and all the extended family on both sides. I know this is such a difficult time right now. We’re sorry we could not make it up at this time, but know that we send many prayers, and the Lord will comfort you and give you strength at this time and the coming months and years, and we love you very much!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘🤗
    06/05/2023 03:27 pm
    Brian an Joan Whitters writes,
    God bless his wee soul.
    06/05/2023 03:58 pm
    Alyssa Horwitz writes,
    I spent my pregnancy alongside Kira. I had my daughter the day that her water broke. It almost felt as if their little friendship was so determined by fate, that he said “Hold on girls, I’m coming too!” When I tell you this is so unfair- our children were best friends by fate. This child was wanted, loved, and fought for. We wanted these babies, we dreamt of our children. It is so unfair that this happened. His mother showed more strength and perseverance in fighting for her child’s health and comfort than I will ever fathom being able to put forth. As a mother and a friend, my soul and being ache for Lucas’s parents. This loss is felt. This loss is unfair. This loss hurts. Lucas was a smiley, happy, perfect, strong little boy until the very end. He was the perfect first best friend for my daughter, and maybe they only met through facetime, but we had dreams of everything this world had to offer him just beyond this chapter. While his story ended so soon, and we didn’t get to live those possibilities, just holding his hands and singing to him was an experience I feel blessed with. Thank you to the Vandyke family for granting me time with your son during his final moments. I am so truly sorry for your loss. Merry part, and merry meet again, my sweet friend.
    06/05/2023 03:58 pm
    Christy and Matt Artymenko lit a candle and writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss! Sending lots of hugs and peace that passes all understanding. Prayers for everyone affected by this terrible loss. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
    06/05/2023 04:05 pm
    Bridget & John Irwin lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Kira Jon, & all your families, Our heartfelt condolences to each one of you at this tragic time. Your most certainly in our thoughts & prayers. Thankfully your faith and the love you have for each other will get you through a day at a time. Little Lucas is a bright and everlasting shining light sleep tight you adorable little soul. sending all our love Xxxx
    06/05/2023 04:18 pm
    Catherine Winnington writes,
    That smile is now an extension from heaven in the living arms of Jesus. It was an honor to pray for little Lucas as a New Life member. Please know that Our Lord will give you peace beyond understanding. Cathy Winnington
    06/05/2023 04:58 pm
    Melissa Bailey writes,
    So sorry for your loss. A beautiful baby boy🙏🏻
    06/05/2023 06:41 pm
    Sean Wright lit a candle and writes,
    This is one of those situations where I wish words could really reflect the love we have for you all. This is one of the toughest situations anyone could face, just hope you know I love you Kira and Jon! Though I never met you Lucas, I love you too and hope you watch over your parents. Love ❤️
    06/05/2023 06:54 pm
    Kellie Collazo lit a candle and writes,
    Jon and Kira, I am so very sorry for the passing of your son Lucas. He is such a beautiful angel. I know that no words can comfort you at this time but you know that God can comfort you at this time and any time to come. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here for you anytime you need to talk, cry, scream or even get angry. I have an ear and shoulder for you and your family. I pray that God will give you the peace that passes all understanding at this time and will give you the strength to endure this season. In God’s love, Kellie Collazo.
    06/05/2023 07:29 pm
    Holly & Joe Cook lit a candle and writes,
    Jon & Kira, Sending our heartfelt condolences to you both during this tragic time. You both are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending lots of hugs to you both during this difficult time.
    06/05/2023 07:52 pm
    Jack & Julie lit a candle and writes,
    Know we are holding both you & your families up in our hearts and prayers! God's perfect peace and comfort for now and many days to come! We love u!
    06/05/2023 08:55 pm
    Alex and Abel lit a candle and writes,
    Oh Lucas. We’ve watched you grow from Indiana. You are still the light of your parents’ lives. They truly love you and it’s easy to see. You were surrounded by love even before you were born and will continue to be loved. We are so sorry Kira and Jonny. He is gone too soon, but God has a plan. Stay strong. ❤️☀️🕊️
    06/05/2023 09:33 pm
    Rev Martha Dorris lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Kira, Jon and families. I was so very sorry to hear about Lucas transition. He is holding on to Jesus hands. He was a strong, happy, handsome fighter from day one. My prayer for all of you is that God will strengthen you and give you peace, surround you with love, and know that you will see him again. I have known Tabby and Tom from Victory. May God guard your hearts with the beautiful memoires of the time you had with him. God be with you all. Much love. Rev Martha Dorris
    06/05/2023 09:41 pm
    Bob &Frieda Holland writes,
    Jon and Kira, thank you for allowing us to visit and touch your precious son. We had a close connection to Lucas in the Spirit. We continue to pray for each of you and your dear family
    06/06/2023 10:26 am
    Penny McKenney lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Kira & Jon, No words can express how I hurt for you. But I also know Lucas in his short time was and is and forever will be for that greater purpose that only God truly understands. As I said to you before he came with a story that doesn’t end here. I’m very proud of both of you and what a blessing he was. God chose you both to be his mommy and daddy that will never change, I know you are so proud of him in more ways then one. Think of the bridge of Love and how he brought many together, far and wide and that each one will hold a special place in their heart and spirts for Lucas. In some strange way I have felt such a deep spiritual connection with him, that only falls within the realm of why we are all here to begin with on planet earth. We all truly do come with a story and for some it takes a lifetime to figure out, as where others just know and that’s how I feel not only for my own mortality but also with your sweet boy. Always keep in the back of your thoughts, “ it’s never Goodbye “ Just see you later” I love you both. Lucas will always be waiting for you forever. 💙
    06/06/2023 11:32 am
    Jennifer Kinsey writes,
    Dear Kira, Jon and family, We give you our deepest sympathy for Lucas being taken away so shortly out of your arms. You did such a wonderful job loving him!❤ What a sweet happy wonderful child to share and truly a huge loss to have to grieve. Keep strong in friends family and each other for continued grief and comfort. Love to you both! ❤💙💕 The Kinseys, Jennifer and Steve
    06/06/2023 02:34 pm
    Megan OBrien writes,
    sending you all the love and strength today and everyday. lots of love and hugs, Megan xxxx
    06/07/2023 06:09 am
    Shirle Brown lit a candle and writes,
    To the Beam Family and Extended, I am sending love and prayers to you all. A big hug to my childhood friends. I pray for your strength as you go through this hard time!🙏🤍
    06/07/2023 06:02 pm
    Jada Stevenson lit a candle and writes,
    I am so sorry for your loss 😞 I will continue to keep your family and loved ones in my prayers🤍🤍🤍
    06/09/2023 10:15 am
    Chrys Mills lit a candle and writes,
    Kira, My deepest condolences are with you. I love you so much and pray that God will continue being your comforter. May he wrap his loving arms around you & your husband. Ms. Chrys
    07/26/2023 02:58 pm

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